WHY MY MAN CHEATED ON ME!



SPORAH SPORAH SPORAH, JUST BN 2 UR FACEBOOK AND SAW THIS!!
You wont believe this!
I found out today that my man cheated on me today so now what do you think?
I should do? He lied for days until, I talk to her myself, then he finally admitted to it. We have been dating for almost 6 years and we live together.

8 months ago
He said he did it when we got in a fight, and he was drunk.
but he also was hanging out with her.

he said he was sorry that he made a mistake and I could go on all his accounts all I want, but do I really want to live everyday worried and checking? I do not think I want that.

I have a daughter with him Sporah, i have no true friends around me!!!! I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START.
I LOVE YOU SPORAH.

30 comments:

  1. Anonymous02:52

    DU sporah umetoka mbali! Looking young and beautiful on this video.

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  2. Anonymous03:10

    Most women caused it.

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  3. Anonymous03:17

    SPORAH SPORAH SPORAH, JUST BN 2 UR FACEBOOK AND SAW THIS!!
    You wont believe this!
    I found out today that my man cheated on me today so now what do you think?
    I should do? He lied for days until, I talk to her myself, then he finally admitted to it. We have been dating for almost 6 years and we live together.

    8 months ago
    He said he did it when we got in a fight, and he was drunk.
    but he also was hanging out with her.

    he said he was sorry that he made a mistake and I could go on all his accounts all I want, but do I really want to live everyday worried and checking? I do not think I want that.

    I have a daughter with him Sporah, i have no true friends around me!!!! I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START.
    I LOVE YOU SPORAH.

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  4. The Sporah Show03:43

    Hello,
    I'm so sorry to hear about this... i know advice is easier to give than to do yourself, but this is my advice..
    My dear, 6 years is nothing compared to the rest of your life. If you have children and wanna try to get over it, please forgive him.

    If you love him and if he's truely sorry then sit down with him and talk to him... no more secrets.
    But if you can't forgive and try to trust him again then leave, but if he's your life and you want to try to make things work then you'll have to try to forgive him and learn to trust him again, even though it will take a long time.

    Once again, good luck and i'm so sorry to hear about the hearbreak you're going through!
    Much Love Sporah xoxo

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  5. Anonymous03:56

    Sporah mdogo wangu, unajitahidi sana.
    Mungu akuzidishie.

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  6. Tysha04:09

    I understand you think he "might" be worth another chance since you invested so much time into this, but you are wrong. It might be forgive, but no forget. I assure you will think everytime he is not answering or is gone, is he with somebody else... they say "Once a cheater, always a cheater" and it does not mean he will cheat again, BUT you will always partly see him as a cheater, thus always a cheater.
    I can tell you this is not normal. a guy who loves his girl does not cheat at any cost. why else have a girlfriend if you wanna sleep with somebody else?
    you gotta ask yourself are worth better than this? if you did invest 6 years into this relationshiop then guys should like be married and stuff, not cheat. it was good while it was but now look for better because you deserve it!

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  7. Anonymous04:13

    Good advice from Sporah,
    but please Ask him y he did it but honestly if they do it once they will probably do it again

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  8. Anonymous05:03

    Dump him, woman!

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  9. Anonymous05:06

    Why play games? Just leave him.

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  10. Anonymous05:08

    Sporah nilikua nakuangalia on Star tv, jamani uko juuuuuuuuuu!

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  11. Anonymous05:17

    Leave him plse.

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  12. Anonymous05:24

    Nyie acheni kujifunza kutoa MAHANJUMATI! Mseme mwanaume Atawacheat! Halloooo ladiezzzzz
    Mwanaume anacheat pale anapokosa kitu kwenye ndoa yake, SEX is assential jamani, jaribuni kuwa good on bed na kupika vizuri na kuwa mkarimu am sure that help alot.

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  13. Anonymous05:26

    Please follow Sporah's Advice.

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  14. Anonymous05:30

    hi sporah wats up girl?

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  15. Anonymous06:01

    Statistics:
    49% of people who have this experience are in their twenties, 39% are in their teens, and 11% are in their thirties. 100% of people who have this experience are women.

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  16. Anonymous06:03

    Close your eyes. Imagine yourself in 3 years. Are you with him? If not, dump him. If so, keep him. Plain and simple. Keep it that way. (Plus, I would dump him)
    Best of luck!

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  17. Anna.06:04

    once a cheater always a cheater...

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  18. Anonymous06:08

    Kimbia dada, kimbiaa.

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  19. Anonymous06:39

    Nakupenda sana Sporah, Namatumaini iko siku nitakuona face to face.
    Karibu Moshi.

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  20. Anonymous08:46

    Give im ONE more chance.

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  21. Anonymous08:50

    Sporah your still young my dear,
    This relationship is unhealthy and will not lead to a life time of happiness. Move on and don't look back.

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  22. Anonymous12:35

    I went through the same thing four years ago. I was in love so you can imagine the hurt I felt to find out something so devastating. I cried and cried and even contemplated staying with him. But...a few days later, I had no more tears to cry and I went from an I love you and want to still work it out attitude to a Cee-Lo F*** You type of attitude. I had to really evaluate the situation and I came to the conclusion that if he really loved me, there would have been no pregnancy nor would I have been shedding tears. I thought about how he could have contracted and gave me a STD. The thought alone was sickening, but at the same time, I was grateful that wasn't the case. I thought about how if I stayed, I would have to look at him, the baby and it's mom knowing how everything went down. Talk about being beyond disgusted.

    After all of that, I decided I had to leave him for my sanity, because I knew that I would not have been able to deal with that situation without bearing feelings of hurt and resentment towards him.
    The funny thing is he contacted me last year!!!! CRAZY
    Dump him girl.

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  23. Alice13:48

    I've been there and he's most likely a player who's using you. Leave him, you can find someone so much better.

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  24. Anonymous16:24

    Hi for those of us who are not in TZ neither UK where to watch the show?

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  25. The Sporah Show18:53

    Hi,
    Thank you for your support
    You can Watch THE SPORAH SHOW ON YOUTUBE please.
    Thank you.

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  26. Anonymous02:23

    Mvumilie mwenzako, hayo mambo yako kwa kila Relationship! Othewise utabadilisha wanaume Kama nguo. Na usisahau mtoto anaelelewa na Baba na Mama na Mtoto anaelelewa na Mama au Mama na Aucle whatever you call them!
    Kuna tofauti kubwa mno wakikua wakubwa! So don't fool yourself my dear. Hao wanaokwambia dump him probably nihao Kama kina Sporah! Hawajui chochote kuhusu marriage! Usidanganyike, piga goti muombe Mungu wako akubadilishie huyohuyo hapo ndani kuliko kukuletea shetani mwingine.
    MEN ARE ALL THE SAME! And cheating, having mistres is now a normal thing ukiwa kwenye ndoa unatakiwa ukubali na umuombe tu mungu Kama mme wako apate kimada mwenye heshima na sio kiruka njia. Mwanamke tulia muonyeshe mme wako upendo utamuona anabadilika taratibu.
    Achana na maneno ya watu, dump him dump him uta dump wangapi???????????????!!!!!!!!!!!! All Men Cheat!!! ALL.

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  27. Anonymous07:14

    Nice blog! Great design and cool topics.

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  28. Mdau Bongo01:41

    Men cheat for so many reason! So it's hard to explain this. Personal I cheat because my wife after having a child she turn not tobe very good on bed, but she is so good on everything apart from that! So if she could give me good sex!!! I wouldn't ever think of cheating her.

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    1. Anonymous02:58

      Do u ever think maybe your wife through you werent good in bed or anything else maybe if you sat down and told her want youd like ti try in bed instead off cheating but it was ok to have a baby to her men just never no wat they want and will use any excuse to cheat !!!!!!

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  29. Anonymous02:51

    Men are all the same think with there bits and not there heads they only care about themselves and dont care who they hurt they all need strung up by there bits they use excuses for there selfishness !!!!!

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