I was with my boyfriend for close to four years. We lived together and planned on marrying. A month ago I went on a trip for a week, when I returned my bf and I talked and decided that we both needed some time to make sure we still wanted the same things. He never moved out and we never really stopped dating. Last week we decided that we couldn't live without each other and we were going to work it out. After reaching this decision I recieved a text from a friend letting me know that while I was on my trip my bf slept with my best friend. (Mind you we were still together at this point)He addmitted to the afair. I kicked him out of the house and I will never speak to my friend again. I am so hurt by all of this. Has anyone experienced this? Any advice for easing the pain. I loved him I wanted to marry him. How could they do this to me? I am so hurt.
Oh sweetie I know that must hurt :
Walking in on your boyfriend sleeping with your best friend is just beyond words. Now days, it’s so hard to trust your girlfriends with your boyfriend. At that moment, you have lost two important people in your life. Not only have you been betrayed by your boyfriend, you have also been backstabbed by your best friend. We all know how much it hurts to be betrayed by the very ones we love, and depend on, and despite the pain, cut these losers from your life and let ‘em have each other. This will leave a mark even though time will pass, learn to be more aware of who you go with, and have as a friend, in the future. Try not to let this interfere with any future relationships that you may encounter, everybody is different. Use it as a learning experience and try your best not to let it drag you down. Remember that with every ending comes a new beginning.