I THINK I AM UGLY BECAUSE OF MY DARK SKIN AND NATURAL HAIR.!


Not Having Enough Dark Skin Natural Hair Black Women On Television Really Messes My Self Esteem Up..!

I need your help,
Most of the time I always see white people the most on almost every channel I turn to.
 Whenever I see a black girl who's representing for all black women she's always light skin with hazel/green eyes (like Beyonce or Rihanna). At night when I'm watching those programs when people are trying to sell their product(s), they always have a light skin green eyed black girl with lose curly hair to try their new flat iron product on or make up. They will just have her and the rest of the females are white, but that doesn't help when every black female is not light skin with green eyes and lost curly hair. I think I am ugly because of my dark skin and tight coil (kinky) hair. I think I will feel much better about myself if I was light skin with long hair and green/hazel eyes.
 Even on BET there are light skin females in the music videos. 
They even have a light skin co-host for 106 and Park, She's not even black. I think there's needs to be more dark black women with natural hair to represent us black women in a good way and to encourage young black girls to love who they are and they don't have to be light skin with green eyes or white to be pretty.
Thank you.

24 comments:

  1. Anonymous15:56

    I have to agree and I am white! It's the same with disabled people.

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  2. Anonymous17:14

    BET does a bad job also, They should really be ashamed of their selves for being a black entertainment channel. When they do have a black dark skin female she majority of the time HAVE STRAIGHT LONG WEAVE IN HER HAIR.
    EVEN YOU YOU SPORAH.!!! LOL
    WHAT A SHAME.

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  3. Anonymous17:34

    Your lovely just as you are babe, fck the rest of them! Don't ever straighten your hair or get it treated

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  4. Anonymous00:06

    Hello, wake up !!every one loves beautiful people & if anyone is dark, they should allways do something to improve their look & learn the technic of applying make-up to improve your look, not jut ignore it. bottom line if you want to enjoy your life, you have to look good. there is no place on this earth for ugly peoples.

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  5. Anonymous02:28

    i blame her parents

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  6. Anonymous03:55

    Ndio maana wachina wanauza creme

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  7. Anonymous03:59

    Hi Spora,
    I don't blame her because HATE being black myself.

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  8. Anonymous04:06

    I'm dark skinned and I hate it. I hate it mainly because of other blacks. Always people assume I'm "ghetto" everywhere i go, and try to talk fucking Ebonics, most of black don't even understand English enough to do so.
    I feel like I'm part of a ignorant race. I just want to be white or something similar so I can fit in and instead of worrying what people think I want to worry about what topic to talk about next.

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  9. Anonymous04:10

    Hi Sporah,
    Check this out from black as tr
    "I TRULY HATE MY BLACKNESS! I BEEN BLACK ALL MY LIFE, AND I WISH I WAS WHITE, I DONT CARE WHAT ANYONE SAYS OR THINK. I LOOK AROUND AND I'VE ALWAYS NOTICED FROM JUST PEOPLE WATCHING TO LOOKING THROUG A MAGAZINE, NO MATTER WHAT.........WHITE FOLKS LOOK BETTER AND SOOTHING TO THEY EYE THAN BLACK FOLKS. WHEN I WOULD SEE A BLACK MODEL, THE CLOTHES OR WHATEVER SHE WAS MODELING DID NOT LOOK AS GOOD TO ME, AS IT WOULD IF IT WERE A WHITE MODEL. NOW I SEE WHY LITTLE KIDS WOULD PICK THE "WHITE" DOLL OVER THE "BLACK" DOLL. I'VE THOUGHT LONG AND HARD ABOUT ALL OF THIS.....AND I'VE COME TO MANY CONCLUSIONS BUT THE FINAL CONCLUSION IS...."IF GOD WAS SO JUST, THEN WHY DIDN'T HE MAKE US ALL THE SAME". WHY BLACKS GOTTA BE BLACK. WE ARE THE ONLY ETHNICITY WITH THE WORSE HAIR, BIGGEST NOSE, BIGGEST BUTTS, BIGGEST BREAST, WORSE LANGUAGE, NASTIEST/JEALOUS ATTITUDE, DUMBEST BRAINS, EVEN THE ASIANS WERE BLESSED TO HAVE ONE OF THE BEST BRAINS. WE (BLACKS) HAVE NO INNOVATIVE MINDS, CREATIVE MINDS OR JUST PLAIN OLE "LIVE OUTSIDE THE BOX" . I TELL YOU, IF IT WERENT FOR THE WIHTE MAN, THE WORLD WOULD NEVER BE DISCOVERED!! WHY? BECAUSE BLACKS ARE TOO SCARED TO VENTURE OUT AND DO ANYTHING BEYOND WHAT THEY CAN SEE! JUST PATHETIC, I LOOK AT HOW OUR HAIR IS FROM EVERY OTHER ETHNICITY. WE (BLACKS) ARE THE ONLY ONES WITH THE WORSE HAIR, WE ARE THE ONLY ETHNICITY THAT HAVE TO FIND SOME HARSH/CANCER CAUSING CHEMICAL TO STRAIGHTEN OUR HAIR OUT. WHITE FOLKS, MEXICANS, ASIANS AND EVERRRRRRRRRRRRYONE ELSE HAVE THE SAME STRINGY HAIR, US BLACKS GOT BOB-WIRE AZZ HAIR! WHY DID GOD CREATE US LIKE THIS? WHITE FOLKS CAN WASH THEIR HAIR AND LET IT BLOW IN THE WIND. BLACK FOLKS CAN WASH THEIR HAIR AND IT REPELS WIND, WATER, AND EVERY OTHER ELEMENT OF THE EARTH.....RIDICULOUS! I AM REALLY PISSED OFF ABOUT BEING BLACK, SERIOUSLY!! WE ARE THE ONLY ETHNICITY THAT HAS BEEN TREATED THE WORSE ON THE EARTH. WE WERE CONSIDERED DIRT BACK THEN AND TRUTH BE TOLD, WE'RE STILL CONSIDERED DIRT TODAY. ITS PATHETIC BEING BLACK. OPPORTUNITIES WERE PASSED BY US, STARTING BUSINESSES, AND EQUAL CHANCES BECAUSE WE WERE BORN UGLY AND BLACK. WE DIDNT ASK TO COME INTO THIS WORLD, WE DIDN'T ASK TO BE BLACK, I WANT TO ASK GOD, WHY DID YOU MAKE US LIKE THIS? WHY COULDN'T WE ALL BE WHITE, WITH MAYBE DIFFERENT HAIR OR EYES OR SPEECH, WHY THE COLOR CHANGE? KNOWING THAT IT WAS GOING TO CAUSE US DEEP HARDSHIP FROM THE TIME WE WERE BORN TIL THE TIME WE DIE. WOW! I REALLY HATE BEING BLACK, NO DOUBT ABOUT IT. WHEN I'M REINCARCINATED, I WANT TO COME BACK WHITE, BLUE EYED, BLONDE AND RE-LIVE A "GOOD LIFE" LIKE ALL THE OTHER WHITE FOLKS OF AMERCIA!!!! BEING BLACK IS SO UNFAIR. THEN OUR ANCESTORS, PARENTS, GRANDPARENTS WANT TO SAY "BLACK IS BEAUITUFL", SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIT, PLEASE! BLACK IS UGLY AND A HARDSHIP .ITS NEVER BEEN NICE TO BE BLACK, WHITE FOLKS DONT WANT US AROUND, THEY THINK WE JUST HUMAN ROACHES, OTHER NATIONALITIES EVEN LOOK AT US CRAZY CAUSE THE WHTIE MAN LOOKED AT US CRAZY FROM THE BEGINNING. WERE THE LEAST AND BOTTOM OF THE TODEM POLE! JUST PATHETIC!! WHO DOES THAT? WE DO? WE'RE THE BOTTOM OF THE BUCKET, WE DONT WANT TO WORK, WE DONT WANT AN EDUCATION, WE JUST WANT TO SIT UP AND EAT WATERMELON AND FRIED CHICKEN AND BE ON WELFARE, WE'RE THE ONLY ETHNICITY THAT IS COOL WITH IT. SURE THERE ARE OTHER ETHNICITIES ON WELFARE, BUT NOT LIKE US BLACK FOLKS!! WE ARE THE WORSE. YES, I HATE BEING BLACK, AND I REALLY DONT GIVE A RATS AZZ WHAT OTHERS MAY THINK ABOUT MY OPINION, CAUSE THATS MY OPINION AND NOT YOURS, DONT LIKE THEN DONT READ! I HATE BEING BLACK! MAKE US ALL WHITE NEXT TIME GOD, THAT WAY WE DONT HAVE TO LIVE SUCH A HARDSHIP IN THIS LIFE!"

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    1. Anonymous23:01

      It is truly sad that you have such low self-esteem that you believe that God made a mistake by making you darkskinned woman. GOD DOESN'T MAKE ANY MISTAKES, AND THAT IS WHY THE HUMAN RACE IS SO BEAUTIFUL COLLECTIVELY BECAUSE WE COME IN ALL DIFFERENT HUES, SKINCOLORS, SIZES, AND SHAPES. YOU NEED TO GET PROFFESSIONAL HELP. LIGHTER SKIN DOES NOT EQUATE BEAUTIFUL. ALL SKIN COLORS CAN BE BEAUTIFUL. BEAUTY DEPENDS ON YOUR OUTSIDE FEATURES, APPEARANCE, YOUR DEMEANOR, AND CHARACTER PERSONALITY TRAITS. BEAUTY GOES BEYOND THE SURFACE.

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  10. Anonymous04:31

    Call me a self hater if you want, but there is no denying the bitter truth is, seriously Many black women feel the same way.

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  11. Zuli04:40

    I'm dark skinned (very dark at that) and sure I got teased at school, calling me crazy names, My feelings were hurt, and I often came home crying, it really destroyed my confident.

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  12. Anonymous05:05

    pole sana dada, sporah msaidie huyu toto anaenda kupotea kabisa maskin ya Mungu.

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  13. Anonymous05:39

    Watu woooote weusi walioko kwenye tv wanajichubua au kubadilisha maumbile yao ili wafanane na wazungu hata na wewe Sporah.
    Kwakweli kazi mnayo, poleni sana.

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  14. Anonymous10:31

    you need help you sound crazy,
    you're insecure about your color? wtf you want to kill yourself because of your skin color...? please talk to a counselor about these issues none of these people can help you

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  15. Anonymous12:28

    i blame the MEDIA

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  16. Stella13:22

    Hi Sporah, You inspire me, you make me feel proud of who I am, you help me believe in myself… encouraging me to do more.
    I LOVE YOU SPORAH

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  17. Believe in GOD13:48

    This post really made me feel bad. I really want you to know that God loves you. He made you to be who you are. You are specail, there is no one in this whole world, or even whole universe who is like you. No one is like you and no one ever will be again. You are who you are, and you should respect that. It does not matter your color or your race. It shouldn't. You shouldn't hate yourself because of you color. You are who you are for a reason. If you sit back all your life hateing yourself, people are going to have trouble loveing you for who you are. The few friends that you have, are all you need, you need friends who will be by your side. The amount of them does not matter. I will pray for you my friend.

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  18. Anonymous14:39

    nakupenda dada sporah, hope to meet you one day.

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  19. Anonymous16:37

    Young woman, you are not black, nor white, nor blue, green or fashion pink!
    You are a human being on planet earth heir to world human culture, that is all.
    Don't define your self by color!
    You are a spiritual energy clothed in a human form.

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  20. Anonymous17:34

    Salute Sporah .!!

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  21. Anonymous00:25

    Naona sikuizi wamekuandama kweli sporah, pole sana mama na hongera sana kwa kuitangaza Tanzania.

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  22. Anonymous01:54

    I will pray for you

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  23. Anonymous12:32

    I LOVE BLACK GIRLS AND I LOVE BLACK BEAUTY!!

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