I NEVER EVER THOUGHT ONE DAY I WOULD BE CHEATING ON MY PARTNER.


Sporah


I am a 25 year old woman and I think that I love two men at the same time and I don't know what to do. 


I never ever thought one day I'd be cheating on my partner. I have a perfect relationship. It's been 7 years, but my partner still treats me like a princess, showered me with affection, compliments and love. I didnt need anything or anyone else.

About 7 years ago I met man no.1,  he is very smart and good looking man who is very protective and always knows the right thing to do. However, when I spent time with my friends without him, I find myself happier.

Man no.2
It started with exercise chit-chat. One day, this guy came along, we talked about our lives, he told me about his partner and i told him about mine too. We met at a local gym. It was an innocent friendship. 

Then we started texting each other, just about general stuffs, but slowly it was moving towards flirting, and all of a sudden I was addicted to his text messages. 

We went out together and were crazy in love with each other. I had the feeling that he is the man I all wanted although he was not perfect neither due to the fact that I felt he does not always know what to do. He is a very lovely and handsome man with a big heart.

In just the past 2 months, it has developed into more than just a friendship. We're kinda seeing each other behind our partners back, and we're sleeping together. I have strong feelings for him, and so does he. He's only together with his partner for the sake of, but I love my partner as well dearly, still. 

My mind says that I should split up with man no. 1 and man no. 2, move back to my home country and start a brand new life. Unfortunately, my heart does not give me an answer apart from saying that it is confused, loves both men and does not want to hurt or leave any of them. I don't know anymore what to think. I need to make a decision as soon as possible, as I don't want to hurt anyone. Both men does not know anything about the issue I have which makes me feel very guilty. I would be very grateful to hear your point of you as I don't know anyone to talk to about this matter.

I am loving 2 men at the same time...
I dont want to tell my partner because I dont want to hurt him, and I cant imagine life without him, but at the same time.. I cant stop seeing this 'gym guy'. 

Why is it wrong to love 2 men at the same time?...
Is anyone on the same boat?
What do you do?


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17 comments:

  1. Anonymous17:44

    OOH NO.!

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  2. Anonymous17:48

    OMG, thank you sporah show
    I'm in a similar situation and am finding myself question what I want and I don't know if it's easier just to give them both up and walk away.

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  3. Anonymous17:51

    firstly think if they like you back rate their luv for u out of10.
    next ask your friends see who they like best.
    finaly have a day ignoring them and see who cares about you more.

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  4. Anonymous18:02

    Jamni tuko wengi, bora wewe hujaolewa, mwenzio mi nimeolewa na ninawatoto wawili na mtu niliokufa kwakwe ni mume wa mtu na anawatoto wanne.
    Yani sina feelings na Mume wangu kabisa, kuna wakati nashindwa hata kujifanyisha, wakati mwingine inabidi nikilala na mume wangu nakuwa namuona jamaa, yani ni balaa.
    Anyway, asante sana Sporah kwa kuweka story kama hizi labda kuna mtu atakaetupa jibu. Maana na mimi niko kwenye huu msafara.

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  5. MADLYN18:13

    GOT THIS FOR YOU LADIES.
    First, you remove sexual attraction and good looks out of the equation. Who treats you better. Who respects you, body and mind. Who is more considerate, to you in particular, and to everyone in general. Which one has a better relationship with his Mother, or other female family members. This is a fair indicator of how he will treat you. Must be honest, and if not overly kind to animals, at least one who would never be abusive to any animal, child, or anyone weaker than themselves.

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  6. Anonymous18:33

    Mh jamani wakina dada wasiku ii mnamambo

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  7. Anonymous18:57

    I CAN ONLY IMAGINE

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  8. Anonymous01:42

    Of course you can be in love with two men. It's absolutely unnatural, unrealistic to be in love with one man the rest of your life. This is one of the reasons why the divorce rate is so high. You marry a person today, and 10 yrs down the road they are not the same person. Then what?? We were meant to love many people... LOL

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  9. Anonymous02:34

    HAPO CHACHA.!

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  10. Anonymous02:48

    i cant even handle single man.. lol...i wud prefer to fall out of love..

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  11. Anonymous02:57

    KEEP THEM BOTH MY DEAR

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  12. Anonymous03:22

    don't leave your boyfriend of 7 years. there is a reason you have managed to stay together that long. Guy number 2 is temporary, don't let yourself think that he has true feelings for you. You are both bored, evryone gets bored with their relationships. the only thing that will keep you guys strong is your friendship. that is why it is important to be frnds with some1 before marriage. when the love goes away your frndship will keep you together. no 2 is simply a play toy thats probably what you are to him. he will never leave his girlfrnd for you so get that in your head. have fun but know no 1 is your man. what ur feeling is very much temporary

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  13. Anonymous04:54

    ASHAWO

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  14. Anonymous05:28

    I can't imagine it must be really difficult.

    I vote for MAN NO 3 Please.
    Break up with both of them, figure yourself out and find someone else (MAN NO. 3) who you want to be with 100% yourself

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  15. Anonymous05:40

    Thank you for a wonderful, fantastic job sporah

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  16. Anonymous08:11

    21 Century dada, mbona wawili ni kitu cha kawaida sana! utakuta hata hao wanawawili au watatu.
    Kula raha dada, life is toooooo short

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  17. Anonymous12:27

    I can't decide between 4 beautiful ladies @Sporah, I need your help

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