I AM A CHRISTIAN GIRL AND I HAVE A MUSLIM BOYFRIEND, WHO IS MY FIANCE..!

Sporah Njau

I Can't Imagine That We Will Have To Break Up Eventually Coz Of This Religious Matter.!!

Hi Sporah, first of all, i'd like to say thank you very much for all your great shows, congrats ! This is why you are a role model for so many of us. 
My name is ...... I am a Christian girl and I have a Muslim boyfriend, who is my fiance now.
I feel like i've met the man of my dreams, and he's totally into me too. He's dark and handsome, and very romantic, we speak the same Language and most of all, he looks at me as am the only woman on earth. 

We've dated for over 4 years now, our relationship was like a pure fairy tale, we never discussed any religious issues and that differences in religions can be an issue between us, we used to agree on everything, and shared all our views together until this year Ramadan when his family came to visit us.

Well, he is not that strict a Muslim, practicing just basic things like Once in a while week praying and Ramadan, and i never cover my head. I love him so much and i respect his religion and i always had/have that feeling that ONE DAY I WILL CONVERT INTO ISLAM JUST BECAUSE OF HIM, ALTHOUGH I NEVER SAY TO HIM. But now, since Ramadan started, he has changed so much, i don't understand him. I feel anger inside because he is making it like it's a MUST..!  I don't feel great to be pushed on this matter.
What is the best advice for me, and for us both in this case? I love him with all my heart, shall we break up now, or maybe we still have a chance? 
We used to love each other so devotely and still our love is so strong, and i can't imagine that we will have to break up eventually coz of this religious matter.
HELP PLEASE.


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14 comments:

  1. Anonymous07:10

    follow your OWN heart.

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  2. Anonymous07:14

    i have the same problem ,, but i don't think we even wanna be taking this to the next step .. we just want to stay together ,, his parents don't want us to talk or see each other any more , he cant take the car to come see me , he cant even go see his friends ,,
    and what's making me go crazy that hes a big boy ,, i mean hes 28 and cant say no, he loves his parents so much ,, and he loves me 2.

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  3. Anonymous07:26

    We wasikilize wazazi wako, wanaume?wasichana wanakujaga na kuondoka, wazazi wako ni wako FOR LIFE.

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  4. Anonymous07:35

    I have this problem too. I really love my bf. But, why does Allah created Christian for Isa, Jesus to convey, if only Islam is right? I believe all of us pray to the God that created us. So that's Allah in Islamic term. I want to marry my bf . Its not only for fun. Why does Allah created non-muslims if we muslims can't be with them? It seems unfair cos men can marry up to 4 women and a woman can marry and tied to only one guy? That is totally strange. We are all humans, but why does it seems like God is bias on sexuality? It seems like God like men better. Why created woman then?

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  5. Anonymous08:18

    He will never marry you, TRUST ME.

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  6. Anonymous08:50

    Its not only Muslim OR Christian, I've been married with my husband for 9 years and have 3 children, his parents don't like me just because am African, Not BLACK, mmh,AFRICAN FROM AFRICA...!!
    If i was black born and bread here thats cool..!
    CAN YOU IMAGINE...!

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  7. Anonymous09:16

    Emotional abuse my dear, walk away

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  8. Anonymous10:41

    Mh pole, hapo mamaa decision ni yakwako, huyu sporah hajawai kuolewa sasa atakupa advice gani? sanasana atakwambia muache huyo mtu, we msikilize mama yako and thats all.

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  9. Anonymous11:18

    My dear, most important thing you should know is that Boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are not allowed.

    Unless you revert to Islam she will never be allowed to marry you.

    That is all you need to know.

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  10. Anonymous11:31

    Nice pictures sporah, I love youuuuuuuu xxxxxxx

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  11. Anonymous15:16

    Ukweli unauju wewe mwenyewe.

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  12. Anonymous21:24

    Sporah mi nakupenda sana, ila nadhani kama nakupenda kimapenzi vile, sijui utanisaidiaje.

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  13. Anonymous00:11

    Mungu alipanga binadamu hawezi kupangua, keep praying, God will find you the right husband.

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  14. Anonymous15:15

    When marrying a muslim person, they will force you to enter into their religion. If you as a woman do, you are in for big trouble. They do not leave their religion, they take it seriously and they "abuse" women. U will be a victim, no matter how much he says you won't . It is in their lifestyle, they are taught this from young toddler age.

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