I HATE BEING A BLACK GIRL, I WISH I COULD DRAIN ALL THE BLACK BLOOD OUT AND RIP THE BLACK SKIN OFF ME.

Sporah
Hi everyone my name is Naomi, i am a 25 years old black female and hate being ablack girl. 
I live in the uk and you hardly ever see black girls being dated.
Black men go with white girls ( which is cool) but no other races want black girls (otherwise JUST FOR SEX). 

In school its like no one loves black girls any more, even the quiet black girls. Why ?
Sometimes i feel like, is it because BLACK STAND FOR DIRT. Black is the color of dirty clothes, hands and feet?? Black is the color of darkness.!!!!?? 

I grew up with both parents in middle class and not in the ghetto and i had white people surrounded me, and were very nice. My mom and dad are both black and they were great parents and i grew up a pretty normal life, only thing is all my life i have hated being a black girl and wish i was a white or other color female. 

My hair is nappy, my skin is dark and i have to deal with all the bad sterotypes of black women which is too much for me. 
I don't get along with other black women because they are always loud and ignorant and really really ghetto, even the middle class ones. 

I wish I was white because I think white people are more atractive are the dominant race in World, have power, authority, better of monetarily.

I don't know if its only in the UK, BUT THE FACT IS: Black people always insult fellow blacks so much division in my race black people are more racist than whites because we hate each other. Atleast most whites can come together most of the time without dividing trivial things. Black people are ignorant, aggressive, oversensitive, defensive, violent. 

Most black people do really resemble a ....  and I wish I could rip the black skin from off me. Most black people have ghetto or black sounding names like......  its not unique it sounds tacky. Most black people think whites are the only ones who are racist when we're the most racist + prejudice people around. 


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I Hate Being A black Girl, I Wish I Could Drain All The Black Blood Out And Rip The Black Skin Off Me But Can't. 



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253 comments:

  1. Anonymous04:44

    Really cuz i allways taught that black girls are really pretty
    (Im a white girl by the way)

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    1. that was nice....but u can be any color in my opinion and be beautiful im black im lightskin with natural curly hair and never wished i was another race but black and BTW i think white girls are pretty too

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    2. Anonymous08:15

      I think some brown girls are crazy and talk about their losing feelings , thinking that any one cares. cry babies, some people just like to victims

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    3. That is really odd. I am a white guy, and I am only attracted to black women. I think you just grew up, like everyone, with the media promoting white beauty. Black women are really nice, look better, built better, look better longer.

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    4. Anonymous13:23

      I always found black women had better skin, better voices, and much more attractive facial curves...curves in general, really. Granted, society likes to paint black women as loud, obnoxious and undereducated...but that's just the trashy media trying to get ratings. That would be the same to say every white, trashy person from the trailer park is what all white people are like.

      It's just not true.

      Love yourself. Find your beauty and hold onto it with a death grip. Don't let anyone take it away from you. People who try are just trying to hide their own insecurities and self loathing.

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  2. Anonymous04:46

    Jichune ngozi kama kina Michael Jackson.

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    1. Anonymous05:44

      Ahsante sana

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    2. Anonymous14:50

      Although it's true that black people are the most racist folks in the world, especially since they hide it, it's not true about black women being unattractive.

      I'm attracted to just as many black girls as white girls, and unattracted to just as many white girls as black girls.

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    3. Anonymous06:24

      Hmmm... if that's you in the photo, I have no idea why people might not wish to date you, personality notwithstanding. You're beautiful. For what it's worth, I'm as white as if I'd come from Iowa, and this is a drive-by comment - I doubt that I'll ever be back.

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    4. Anonymous22:54

      Ok, I'm a white guy (from the us though) and I would like to give you my 100% honest oppinion. I think that black girls are absolutely beautiful! I have dated a couple black girls and loved them both. These girls were very laid back, soft spoken, and able to take suggestions without immediately getting defensive and thinking they were being attacked or judged. A lot of men are put off by the attitude/personality that many of black women have (please understand I am not grouping all together as that's unfair to do to any group of human beings) Most guys I know, of all different races, like to be calm, civil, and relaxed 99.9 percent of the time. I honestly cannot count how many times I have been in a public forum (resteraunt, store, place of business etc) and witnessed a black woman (or 2 or 3) come into a place that was completely calm and quiet, and absolutely flipped that tranquility on its head; being loud, cussing constantly, feeling that they are being mistreated, giving people a hard time, and yes, I've experienced 4 different fights in such places. Let me re-idderate, most the people I know prefer to be in places that are chill, with people that are chill. I can't tell you how many times I actually genuinely felt bad for these women, because of the way they were acting. Its kind of like feeling bad for your mom for walking around all day with a HUGE booger hanging out of her nose. Or a friend that walks around all day with no boxers and his fly hanging open all day. Anyhow, this has gotten too long winded. Most of the people I know, myself included, are infinitely more concerned with someones personality, and not the color of their skin. If they are cool as hell, they are cool as hell; and I don't know anyone on this planet that does not want to be around someone that's cool as hell. Think about it. My point is, I'm sure your probably a beautiful and lovely woman. Embrace it, its you. If your chill, a good person, and fun to be around; I say SCREW ANYONE that would dismiss these qualities based on you skin and your hair. If that happens, I guarantee you 100% that they are blind, hatefull bastards that you would not want to be around. No one wants to be around ignorance like that. I'm sure the last thing you were expecting when writing this was to receive a reply from a white man. If my thought were unwanted, then I do apologize. You sound like an intelligent, thoughtful woman and I couldn't stand to think of you feeling bad about your skin/hair. I wrote this from the heart, and I hope that you take it as genuine as it was intended. Love yourself girl, someone will find you one day. :-)

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    5. I AM SURE THE WRITER IS NOT BLACK WOMAN, SHE/HE MUST BE WHITE RACIST TRYING TO PRETEND IN ORDER TO DELIVER HER RACIST STORY...!

      by the way I am black man living in Europe having dated alot of black and white women...and also I have a lot of white friends who love to date black woman because they feel are sexy and exotic but are afraid or intimidated that they are not good enough as they think black women have experienced black men. I am proud AFRICAN but preach peace and no racism as I do not practice one!

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    6. Hi I'm 13 and I'm a Mixed girl. Black,Canadian, Native American, Italian and believe it or not Black is the most Popular Race in America along with Latino girls But in most songs Black Girls are used in them saying how strong they are and Most celebrities are Black Being black doesn't make you Ugly or anything I'm proud to be part of black culture Because in the long run if nuclear bombs hit white people die first because of there light skin btw I'm a tan color but I'm still black being black goes back in history for anyone saying they want to tear of there skin you might as well let any white man or whoever do it for you because wishing not to be black is not getting you anywhere but depression my advice go to God Jesus Christ he heals God Bless You.

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    7. Anonymous07:59

      i am a white man, black girls are just as pretty as any girls, and sometimes much sexier

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  3. Anonymous04:57

    That's sad to hear, but I'm sure it's because you ran into the wrong people. I don't know where in the UK you live but around where I live black girls get dates as do every other race . Just remember inner beauty shines through and lasts forever ,outer beauty fades and is superficial and sometimes the ugliness inside shines through. It is your personality and character that count most ,but I am sure you are pretty as well you just don't feel it at the moment.
    THUMBS UP SPORAH

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    1. It's not just the uk. It's the us and everywhere else. I am a 22 year old black female from the us and not only do I despise being black, I've gone as far as cutting myself and flipping my skin to Peel the nastiness off of me. White men will not date us. Unless it is for sex. My heart has been broken so many times by a white male that I am nearly disgusted with men in general. I listen to rock n roll, I grew up in the ghetto, lower class, child of divorce. But I am not ghetto. Far from it actually. It's extremely hard to find a job because of the whole dominance thing and can love anyone better than my parents loved each other. None of this is good for the opposite race. They would rather me cringe cf something I can't change but would die to. Bit anyway just short description to let you know this is happening all around the world. I just so happen to be a victim of a ugly loveless color I never asked to be. And to top it all off my name is jaraniqua. Can you even say that correctly? Everything about the dark skinned race is ugly and if I could just flip me inside out, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be as lonely and wanting to die as I am today.

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    2. Anonymous13:31

      Nicole, men want to be with women, simply for the sex, regardless of color. There are many studies that show men would rather have many sexual partners than be tied to one person. White girls, black girls, hispanic girls...girls in general, get their hearts broken every day.

      To say you're willing to harm yourself to be "white" tells me that you're investing too much time looking at what people, who probably have just as many things they wish they could be aside themselves, think or feel. Remember, many of these people are uneducated or have been gravely misinformed. Worrying what these people think would be like a scientist worrying about what a redneck with a middle school education thought about evolution.

      Don't settle for other people's standards for yourself. Be the standard, love.

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  4. Anonymous05:01

    Poor girl, you will get a boyfriend eventually, one who appreciates you and not some idiot like the boy at school. Take a look around you, there are many beautiful black girls, many beautiful girls of all races.
    There are loads of both black and white guys who love girls like you.

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    1. exactly...i agree with you with last sentence what did u write. U know lots of white men like mixed race or black girls. Im white man i like too much mixed race ladies but sometimes is really difficult to get them.I dont mean for sex but to get relationship. My personal opinion is maybe im wrong.. mixed race ladies and black ladies are for black or mixed guys.. i dont know maybe im wrong. I tried 2x times get in relationship or whatever ...its really difficult...Lots of my friends -black or mixed.. told me they sometimes prefer white ladies .. because they're more opened up and they're not crazy. They told me not everyone but they like money ,posh life..and always fight u through some silly stuff.They get headache of them...

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    2. NICELY SAID!!!:)))

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  5. Anonymous05:37

    O.M.G.! I GO THROUGH THIS EVERYDAY.
    i have three beautiful girls, AND THEY ALL COMPAIN ABOUT THEIR SKIN COULOR, THE BOYS AT SCHOOL DON'T LIKE THEM ect.
    This is a big issue right now with our children, i wonder if Sporah can do a programs about it.

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  6. Anonymous05:38

    DON'T BE SILLYYYYYY.

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    1. Anonymous07:52

      Girl om white and i think black girls are B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L ! Most my friends are black and sometimes i even wish i was black, you guys got it all going on! Beautiful bodys, bold personalities, beautiful skin colour! your all original & you should never feel like that! Embrace your culture girl , be proud of who you are! You just gotta wait for the right man, & never ever feel like your in competition with other races, we're all equal & who ever thinks not are narrow minded idiots!!!!x

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  7. Anonymous05:39

    Don't let idiots make you feel bad about who you are.

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    1. Anonymous11:17

      This is very sad to hear I am of a black decadence and as a girl I am greatly inspired by black women who opened up the way for me to achieve. I love many people of different races, but regarding my own I do believe we have little maturity and independence in the economy. Instead following the ways of successful people we choose to make nothing of our lives. I want to be a future black woman who makes something of myself. I personally think you are mixing with the wrong people, not all black girls are ghetto you should look for someone who enjoys the things you do. Embrace yourself your still you !! older than me LOOL. but your views on your skin colour has inspired me to write a poem for my English poem assessment. Black people such as ourselves need to come together. Love yourself for who you are and don't worry about what's on the outside you have been given what you have received, you can not change it so don't try to. Also I suggest that you don't look for a particular race when it comes to men, maybe that's the problem, look for someone that loves you for who you are ! x

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  8. Anonymous05:54

    I truly feel sorry for you, no offense. , it dosen't really matter what you are, just make something of yourself.
    I probably will never know how you truly feel.
    Maybe you should get some help, best of luck to you :).
    OR, you should go to Canada, Canadians aren't racist like most (NOT ALL) If you ever can afford it.

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  9. LOOK AT YOUU.......
    Your SOOO disgusting, this is absolutely disgusting why would you insult your own race like that?? is the most ignorant thing of all I'm black and proud of it I'm not on welfare and never have been I know plently of white's who sag and are as ignorant as they come. I really hope this is some kinda joke because if your serious you should seriously seek help.

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    1. Anonymous18:56

      Well. That means you dont understand. Im black and I hate it. Because a lot of black women makes me look bad and they ratchet as hell. Fuck that shit. And fuck being black. Im a quiet black girl who gets steard at by a lot of people in the wrong way. Because the think im ghetto and nasty and ratchet. Like all the other Hood rats.... sooo I say fuck being black like those nasty disgusting ratchet ghetto ass bitches. And yes. Thats it.

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    2. Anonymous20:45

      Let me help I am a very dark-skinned 6'1, 200 black man with 3 degrees and 2 beautiful black daughters people would consider me some what successful. Sporah is the problem from a 3rd country like Haiti, cameroon, etc. spent her whole life watching tv day-dreaming of being white in Europe seeing other blacks as inferior this is not a "revelation" for Sporah. Sporah unlike my daughters she wants the white man tell her she is pretty otherwise her daddy's love would have been enough in the UK. What another black women does or does not do has zero effect on YOUR self worth, self esteem, self respect, and value that is nonsense. Who are you ?

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    3. Anonymous19:31

      Same here. I'm black and I'm not ignorant. Most of all how are you to say white people are prettier than black people. That is stereotypical. And manure you can't get a boyfriend for some other reason don't just it's because yourblack

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    4. Anonymous22:56

      That's a great way to treat someone who is feeling down, lick em in the face. Dispicable!

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    5. Now, now let's not upset her even more. Encourage her instead. Black is beautiful! I wouldn't trade my dark skin for any other. This may sound weird, but the more I learn about what blacks have been through, the more I fall in love with it. It shows how strong we as blacks really are. However, we have been brainwashed and led to believe that we are cursed because of our color. No one should be ashamed of what race they are, who they are as a person, or what anyone thinks of them.

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    6. Anonymous01:24

      i love you! *Simples*

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    7. Anonymous09:14

      yeah I think you are just being as rude

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    8. Anonymous13:35

      Abi, you are also male...which is different than being a double minority. You miss the point, being as a man, you are more likely to pursue women, whereas this voice is coming from a woman's perspective, where they are [or are not] being pursued.

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  10. Anonymous06:06

    I feel the same way, i don't blame you.

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  11. Anonymous06:07

    BLACK DON CRACK BABES.

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  12. Anonymous06:09

    shut up...i am black and feel the same way...i was adoped and live in a small white town where i was the only black person..i hate being black i cant find anyone that will touch my hair because they have never done black hair i dont know how to take care of it people make fun of me alot..because i supposidly talk white...i have 2 white parents how am i supposed to know...i see the looks people give me.Dont get me wrong people call me beautifull all day but its friends and family and they are supposed to tell you that..i dont know how to get out of this mind set..i'm a great person i would do anything for anyone regardless of skin color i just ahte myself

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    1. 1) I'm not familiar with the idea of 'talking white' (naive white British guy) so I can only guess as to what that means. Is it an accent thing? or is the way you choose to phrase words in a sentence and the words you choose to use. Well, its all English at the end of the day isn't it? We use it to communicate and all the other stuff that we do with our mouths and words to identify with a culture or region or group is all for decoration really. Who needs it? Talk however you want. No race in the world 'owns' a language or has copyright monopoly on words. Is it because you talk 'posh'? Well it shows up someone's racism the instant they start associating the idea of 'posh' exclusively with white. Be a posh black person? You define the terms of what it means to be black for yourself. Tell the rest of the world to go blow.
      2) I bet you are beautiful, don't forget those 'looks' might be looks of attraction, intrigue or even envy. Pop culture is a having a romantic love affair with Hip Hop and R&B at the moment and there are millions of nerdy, geeky culturally irrelevant white teenagers out there right now desperately wishing they were black for the instant street credibility they believe it would give them. This is why some boys are intimidated by black girls and not for the reasons you might think. It has little to do with the 'appearance' of your colour and a lot more to do with a feeling of not being culturally 'cool' or masculine enough to meet a black woman's needs - imagine how intimidating it would be for a white man to try and live up to the black ex boyfriend of a woman he is dating? You might think that's silly in some ways, but don't forget to consider this!
      3) Love and a good heart always finds a way to overcome everything. I wish your big hearted, beautiful self lots of luck and love xxxxx

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    2. Anonymous06:30

      I've never really understood why people might reject other people on the basis of race. Beauty, intelligence, wit, grace, strength, empathy; these are qualities that exist independently of race. That said, I live in an area which is the British equivalent of Arkansas, and people freak out if you utter a sentence with more than four words at any one time. Not much tolerance for difference here and I say that as an ex goth, so, I can sympathise.

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    3. I always told people about what you mentioned here in 2. thanks for pointing that out. I'm writing a movie script about something similar, do you mind chatting for a moment. contact me IG:jappan_cinema email: milanostyles85@gmail com

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  13. made in Tanzania06:09

    okay.....i am 100% african but with light complexion....either way i love being black. i wud not change a thing....okay myb my hair tooo hard alwyz hv to relax frm tym to tym. otherwise, i love my nicely shaped lips, big brwn eyes, nice big booty if u knw what i mean.

    I LOVE BEING BLACK NO MATTER WHAT. grl learn to love yourself then other ppl will love u. u cant get any boyfrnd black,white,red, yellow with that LOW SELF ESTEEM U HAVE. see a shrink.

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    1. Anonymous15:50

      thats because your light skin. try to be dark skin and see what happen. Although
      I'm brown, bronze color like Christ in the bible. Rev. 1:1 Fine brass as if was burnt in the furnace.

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    2. Anonymous01:00

      If you have a light complextion you are NOT 100% african. 100% african people are a very dark black. You have a light complection because you have one or more white ancestors. Keep in mind that only 7% of slaves africans sold to slave traders were brought to America. At a value of ~$250K in todays money only the very wealthy could afford slaves. And, at that time it was very common for slave owners to have a female "house slave" willing girlfriend or more. It was also very common for their 50%/50% male offspring to be given an education and a piece of land in the owners will.

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  14. Anonymous06:14

    I too hate being black and I ma A Black Gay man. Homophobia is more intense world wide among Blacks and I avoid most str8 black people. I have mentally internalized those feeling from childhood because of the poor way they treat LGBT people in early life. I'm an ex-Christian,because they simply do not represent GOD.

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    1. Anonymous23:05

      i hear what you're saying, can i just offer a gentle reminder though, dont look to other christians to represent God, they will ALWAYS let you down, simply because all people are full of sin, and as long as we are living on this earth we will be affected by sin. But instead look to God himself, to Jesus. He is the only perfect example we can follow. As for the black issue, black is beautiful!!! all colours that God has created are beautiful!! he is the most amazing artist and he did not make any mistakes when he made you. we are all his children black, white, short, tall, gay straight or otherwise. hang in there and look to J.C :) God bless you

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    2. Christians don't accept gay people because it's not christian! Its a sin to be gay, just as much as its a sin to kill. And I'm sick of people bending the rules when they want to. They want to call out the cheater whose had a affair for 8 years, but its okay for a man to like a man? That's dumb. And I despise LGBT people. IDC what u say. I stand by god and believe what the bible says. So sue me for trying to obey god? Please. And this black girl who hates herself needs to see a shrink or something, okay some things were true but somethings were just her low confidence. She needs to stop/generalizing and get her self together. Like stop having a poity party sit down and shut up, I don't feelsorry for u, I'm black and I love myself.

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    3. Anonymous18:30

      I am an older, dark-skinned, straight black female, and I HATE homophobic people.

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  15. Anonymous06:16

    NAKUBALIANA NA WEWEW 10000000000000000000000000000000%
    WANAKUDANGANYA WATU WEUSI WOOTE WANGEPATA NAFASI YAKUJIBADILISHA KUWA WEUPE WANGEJIBADILISHA NA NDIO MAANA CREAM ZA KUJICHUBUA ZINAUZIKA.
    NYOOOOOOO""

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  16. Anonymous06:44

    i wish i could be one of those people that love who they are and where they came from i just dont know how.
    I HATE BEING BLACK TOO.

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    1. Anonymous13:54

      It breaks my heart to hear how everyone is so unhappy. I am a black american from the south . I cannot understand why anyone would disown their race. I went through a lot of discrimination, but I was happy to be in my skin. We must love the skin we are in. We are all beautiful. A good example : Lupita Nyong'o. She is a natural girl. Ladies, there is a man who will like you. You will only hurt yourself and scare away others. If you keep putting yourself down.

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  17. Anonymous07:08

    Of course guys don't go for you, if you don't love yourself, who else will? You need to accept yourself the way you are, otherwise you'll have issues forever. You can dye your hair blonde and get blue contact lenses, but that will not solve anything, will it?

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  18. Anonymous07:28

    Mtoto huna adabu wewe, haya nenda kaflash hiyo damu uone kama utapata bamu ya PINK.
    BALAA MKUBWA WEWE.

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  19. Anonymous17:19

    That's sad to reach!!! I agree with you on everything tho.

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  20. Anonymous17:38

    I KNOW HOW YOU FEELI, I HATE BEING WHITE TOO NAOMI BUT YOU GOTTA LIVE WITH IT. SOMETIMES I GET HATED FOR NOTHING, I REALLY REALLY HATE BEING FAT AND WHITE.
    ITS SO WEIRD...THAT EVERYTHING IN THIS COUNTRY IS ABOUT COLOR, SHAPE AND SIZE. SO SO SO SAD.

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  21. My wish is to be a black woman ,I hate my shit white male gender!!

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    1. Anonymous08:21

      Girl know u dont wish to be. Black woman i am black woman black peoples. Are. Dumb

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  22. Anonymous03:15

    I love everyone I dont care about the colour

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    1. Anonymous01:33

      same here mate :)

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  23. Anonymous11:03

    I am black, may confess that years ago i hated it. I hated myself and questioned God why he created me into such color. I did all sorts of bleaching that totally changed me into what most people thought to be mixed race. It made a catch, and i thought it was too sexy to be real, But eventually, it had some consequences and i had to let it go. What i learned was people will never appreciate you if you don't appreciate yourself first. I'm not judging, i totally totally and i mean totally understand, but all I'm saying is you have to fall in love with yourself first, before you expect that from others. I'm back to being black, and I'm loving it, In fact i have so many white friends now that wish they had my color. who you are starts from within. I don't know you, but I almost shed a tear while reading your story, because once upon a time I was you. Learn to love yourself, and the rest will fall into place. If you're black, then you're definitely beautiful! plus if possible, forget about those loser school boys, what do they know about life anyway? all they ever look for is a sexy hot babe with a j.lo body that they can show off to, to the universe. I'm engaged to a white now, plus pregnant. met my future husband here www.afroromance.com all the best babe.... x

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  24. Anonymous10:55

    Wow what a sad sad post...from what you have described England sounds like an awful, abusive, stinking and disgusting place to live. Poor girl, please don't put yourself down, you are beautiful. I think you should move to America or Canada, and you would be treated much better. People tell lies and exaggerate alot on the internet and say America and Canada are bad etc... but its really not as horrible as England sounds from what you have posted here. Move away from that terrible place, it really sounds like its tearing you apart dear. You deserve much better.

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    1. Anonymous15:42

      America? Are you kidding? Backwards, prejudice America? You should at least be specific and mention moving to Seattle, etc., somewhere less prejudiced. Not just America.

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    2. Ridicuolous twaddle from people who clearly have never crossed the pond. I'm a black British human being and very proud to be from Yorkshire, considered one of the whitest places in the country by people who have extremely small minds. From the sounds of it, many of you have a huge chip on your shoulder than can only be subsided by getting a life, maybe studying your black history and taking some steps to get over your own personal issues.. No wonder so many young black children grow up feeling lost when they have role models like this to follow! If you were to use your eyes and do some research, you might get to grips with the fact that the UK has MANY politicians, top surgeons, excellent barristers, leading figures across the board that are BLACK, not mixed or light, but BLACK, so please get your facts straight, engage your brain and maybe get a PASSPORT, which will enable you to broaden your mind and take the steps to get over your OWN prejudices.. Just because a white person isn't attracted to you, have you stopped to think that it may not be your skin colour, but possibly your unbridled paranoia, terrible, negative attitude towards yourself and your need to blame white people for everything bad that happens in life. Maybe you need to look around and see how many other races and religions get persecuted everyday. Or perhaps try putting yourself in the shoes of a disabled person who feels they have no respect from those that are able-bodied.. Even put yourself in the WHITE shoes of a human being who happens to live in a major BLACK area in London UK where many are not accepted purely for being WHITE in a BLACK area!!!

      It works both ways, guys, so stop all this 'It's only blacks that get it hard' it is very sad to see.

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    3. Anonymous01:35

      hahaha! lol! dude you made me flip twice... Seriously!

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  25. Anonymous02:48

    Stay strong.

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  26. Beautyneverceases21:33

    most people commenting of how they hate being black too are white trolls and I wonder if you are one too. how can you say you hate black people because they fight against themselves? read your post again and find out what you just did, you are racist against your own people. I'm a black girl, and I mean as black as they come... where I worked as a cashier, ladies keep turning their boyfriend's faces away from me and my coworkers always tell me their customers say I'm beautiful! Who cares? I don't. if they don't think I am, the them checkout their goods and never come back! I smile and laugh a lot and a lot because I don't really care what goes on outside me and my family, my parents and siblings are great. so I don't have time to think of what people might think about me, they are INSIGNIFICANT as far as I'm concerned. I am 100% African though, (so an immigrant)and from what I've noticed since I came here, the western world has more problem than it actually realizes; they think they are happy, but they are not... why? because happiness is a personal thing, a spirit you awaken within you and which makes you attractive no matter how you look. Don't try to fit into any one's criteria! let them for once fit into your criteria. I know some black women are loud but I've seen some loud white women too, the only difference is that the black woman talks from the depth of her heart pouring out all emotions: anger or joy. You are very free to stay away from them if you feel uncomfortable and find friends that you feel comfortable with. Besides you wont find good friends if you look depressed, just try to look bright and happy. No one defines who you are, you define yourself to people through confidence or lack of it. I would have desired nothing more than my African heritage, I can trace my genealogy and I'm proud of my culture, people might think this is funny but you usually don't know what exists until you have a feel of it. I suggest you visit your African heritage if possible, forget about bored people that try to bring others down in order to make themselves feel better and move to another place and start living for yourself and not for others. Wish you luck . . .

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  27. yes I agree with the other comments, it's imperative you love and at least like yourself! Otherwise you will attract what you are, which is the true essence of who you are. You should spend more time getting to know who and how valuable you are and then you will begin to see how beautiful you truly are!

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  28. Its funny because when i was younger i used to be just like you, i group up around mostly whites, and the black kids would make fun of me bc my parents raised us to speak proper and I just never fit in with anyone. But you know what, bc i was so different, I became twice as popular bc everyone saw how confident and sweet I was and wanted to be around me. 9/10 times I'm always the only black girl in our group and I loveee it!!! I'm a beautiful black woman and ppl always tell me that ! Even my white friends tell me how jealous they are bc I'm gorgeous ! Men of all races approach me, to date me bc when I'm with my friends I stick out like a sore thumb but they love that I'm exotic & confident ! Men can read insecurity on your face like a bad novel, so let it go, I love being the oddball out, bc that means I don't have other black girls to compete with for my men lol ;). Love yourself and realize that being "different" isn't always such a bad thing.

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  29. I too was made fun of because I acted too "white". The school I went to was mostly white but the small minority of blacks were really loud and called me names and jeered at me. It seems physical aggression took presidence over academics/reasoning. It was traumatic and I'm traumatized still that is why I'm here. and then blacks will lash out at my trauma for being "weak" instead of understanding why I feel this way. Sometimes I think blacks are better at sports but not as inept at reasoning that's just how I feel. This is something nobody want to talk about for the sake of being politically correct. But I know that we are all human and all demographics have their strengths and weaknesses and I have to work towards forgiveness and get help.

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  30. Lets erase the hate by loving who you are and what you stand for. Being unique is impressively beautiful and can start a domino of worldly change.

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  31. Anonymous15:08

    The reason people don't date you is not because you are black, people don't date you because you are insecure and have low self esteem. I am black. I am married to a beautiful white man. Still I still get chatted up by all races. I do not consider myself text book beautiful, I have buck teeth and a facial scar but I am a confident young woman who knows that it is my uniqueness that makes me beautiful. I love being black. If I came back to this world, I'd still want to be black. I am not saying it's easy being black. It is not but I wouldn't change who I am one little bit. Learn to love yourself and you'll attract people like bees to honey, I promise you this.

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  32. My things, let's get out of the self pity mode please. Somethings we just have to deal, and they are the crosses we bear as black women. That is just how it is in this world, so my thing is try to worry about the things that you can do, and don't get caught up in the inequities. We all have our unique gifts to share with the world in different ways, so use your life to do that to the best degree possible. If things bother you that much, I strongly recommend seeing a therapist, because he/she can help you identify behaviors that are self-destructive and keep you from living life to your fullest potential.

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  33. Anonymous17:37

    I feel sad that you grew up in a society where people hate black. You should visit an African country and you'll feel special. Most of us are black and proud to be black. I'm proud to be black because i look great and men always ask me out or stop me just to tell me am a black beautiful girl with a lovely smile,nicely shaped lips, big booty, hips, small waist and lovely boobs. I don't wear make-up coz i don't need to, just use vaseline on ma face and lip balm and thats all. During my university days, our University used to have a student exchange program with universities overseas and all students who came here where whites but we didn't feel threatened coz we had it all.

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  34. I feel so sad for you.... You were beautiful, now you look like a Beyonce wannabe. You are the epitome of a victim and a slave who brought into the lies. So sorry people of every skin colour battle with insecurities but black women and Asian women are not represented as beautiful in the mainstream... you have been brainwashed into thinking that light skin and long hair is the only representation of beauty and now you are turning on your own race. I don't behave with a foul mouth or put other black people down... you are speaking from your experience and I get that... but that is NOT about race.. that is about how YOU feel about yourself, it's bout the fact that your parents did a crap job raising you with any self esteem or pride and it's to do with your poor choices of company or friends. woman and I a very attractive black woman, a model and an unprocessed natural beauty and men of ALL races and backgrounds have had the luxury of dating me. Caribbean men ,African men, Italian, Australian, English and Croatian. Since people attract their 'type' in the beauty stakes I can also say whilst I am not shallow all of my boyfriends have been equally if not more attractive to me one or two of them being in the personal training, fitness industry, legal profession and recently a model. I won't insult you like others have because these are YOUR experiences... I will only tell you MY experiences and I have found other black women to be nothing but supportive and kind, just like my white female friends....When they have NOT been head first stuck up the rear end of a man.. this is an affliction which affects ALL women of ALL colours.. some females are just insecure and will ditch you the minute a boyfriend comes along... however I digress. I am so sorry you feel you had to change your skin colour and lengthen and process your hair to fit in. I am also sorry that you feel it is ok to put your mother down the woman who gave birth to you...

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  35. Anonymous11:17

    When black chicks get rejected they always try to make it race thing. The idea that they (on an individual basis) might be ugly to the guy never crosses their mind.

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  36. Anonymous14:01

    I feel the same too.I ve been dating this Arab guy and at the end of the day he said he doesn't want me anymore cuz his family won't accept me cuz of my skin color. .

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  37. mike09:00

    Im a black African male in South Africa. I have never been attracted to white chicks, the skin colour isnt apealing to me whether they are wearing shorts or minis.Even very light skinned blacks arent so attractive. What attracts me the most is the change in skin colour from thighs right up to where the bum starts. Black ladies have the sexiest body structures , i.e narrower upper body and wide bottom. No matter how your face looks as long as the boot is there and well shaped , its a turn on for me, even at a shopping mall i see one such lady I cn change my direction and start following you from behind enjoying the viewing the rare stuff

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      Well said Mike

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      Pole sana

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  38. You are right..
    Sorry to hear you were born black
    Scientifically ,, blacks are lowest on beauty scale as noted by Maruqeds beuaty mask, thicker noses, hair, etc..
    and also have 20% lower iq's as proved by 80 years of iq tests.
    and black men only want white women cuz white women are way prettier.

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    1. Anonymous18:17

      Complete and utter bs. I've literally never read such nonsensw. What a troll. Anyway, this girl needs to realise that not everyone is going to like you, no matter what you do. The fact you believe that altering your skin colour will make you happier/more accepted/more attractive in anyway is ridiculous. Attraction is a matter of opinion firstly, and secondly its most probably your lack of confidence , constant self loathing that you carry around with you that enables those people to get to/you to see things that arent there. Im black, and im definently not ashamed, i live in the u.k and all i ever see is mixed race children from couples with a black mum and white dad. I have a ton of mixed cousins being born within the last 3 yrs and its all the same combo aside from one . My first bf was white, but i dont even pay attention to race when dating. It shouldnt matter. Not even in the slightest , and if the people around you believe it does , then your around the wrong people. Its that simple. But first you have to believe thay your not what society ,or social media says you are. BlaCk is just as beautiful as any other skin colour. Just like any other race we have beautiful people and ugly, there is no imbalance. Beauty is not about having lighr eyes and straight hair and pale skin, its that special combination of features that just instantly catches peoples eye, there is no specific template for it. P.s the golden ration is b.s i cant wait for the day people forget about race and begin thinking about important things . Did you ever consider the fact its YOU thats the problem? not your colour?

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      thats kinda rude. You probably just made her and the many other black people reading this feel even worse about themselves. And not all white woman are prettier, smarter, or attractive to guys than black woman "scientifically proven." -.-

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    3. Anonymous00:47

      What an ignorant, condescending, absolute bullshit statement. You must be a troll. I refuse to belive anyone living in the 21st century can that incredible imbecilic.

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    4. Mike seriously
      Hahahahahaha
      You people never cease to amaze me. . .
      In what century are we on?
      I'm confused!

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    5. Awww bless you, your blind. White girls have nothing over black girls. Pale skin, thin lips, no shape .... not missing much besides the societal favoring in certain countries. Thats about it. If they were so special why do most of them aspire to have black features and culture. Really hate to sound bias like you mike but sometimes people really do ask for it. I just wish people would stop trying to make them out to be something special, when they arent.

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  39. Anonymous02:50

    I get you. I thought I was alone. In my family, they call me the white one because of my skin color, body shape, accent and preferences. I struggled with being socially acceptable. It hurt me that I couldn't fit in anywhere. But I guess everyone has something that they hate about themselves, big or small. I realized I was being childish, thinking that no one would love me instead of thinking who do I have to love (and trust me, there are many). That's why I want to grow to be a person who doesn't hate her own color. I want to go back to being a the child I was that never even noticed these things about myself. I wish you the best with your life as well.

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  40. Anonymous02:28

    1/. do you know about your culture and heritage? If not, then read and educate yourself about world history from different perspectives. I recommend you read a book called 'technology of the gods'. You will see that we live in a very Eurocentric world and our education and media demonises our people
    2/. Who defines the standards of beauty? Again Eurocentric imposition
    3/. Be proud of who you are: Achieve, aspire and fuck everyone else and stop kissing white ass
    4/. Calm the fuck down and stop thinking so much: Take up yoga, taichi or meditation to stop this mental diarrhea you seem to have.
    5/. Go to Africa, see the love and beauty of the people there

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      What a load of twatty twaddle, sir you are a twat of the highest order.

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      Maybe if you didn't refer to white women as 'white bitches' your response would seem credible.

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      Where have I mentioned 'white bitches'?

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  41. Anonymous22:58

    I'm a white guy and like everyone else, we all have our types, for me it's black girls/women. I don't find any other races of girls attractive but since everyone loves white bitches let me think of a few things that could be attractive about them? is it the Long nose, thin lip, straight up and straight down bodies? the sickly pale skin that makes them things look like they are wasting away and lack of pigment that makes you see their blood forth? I don't classify myself as a self race hating person like you but I just tell the truth, whites in general are the ugliest things that walk the planet and I'd never go near a white bitch. It's true what you're saying people do not see the beauty in Black women and I don't know wtf is wrong with them are they blind or sick? and if Im the sick one I enjoy being so and never want too recover, nothing can compare with the beauty of a Black woman.

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      You're actually black aren't you

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    2. Anonymous03:24

      gud as u said

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    3. Anonymous03:25

      df

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    4. Anonymous15:02

      U should be ashamed of yourself!! Trying to make someone feel better about themselves by downing another race. Their many beautiful women in this world of all racists. Its the ignorance in people like u that make this world what of is. Its really a shame. Everyone should be comfortable in their own skin but bcuz of people like u its hard. Your truly amazing And not in a good way.

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  42. Anonymous17:30

    It is sad to hear that so many black people hate themselves. Please DO NOT let others define who you are and your self worth. It's the content of your character that counts and not the color of your skin. I have seen so-called beautiful people from other races that are as ignorant and trashy as someone living on the streets. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, if your character is deplorable no one will want to be around you. Start loving yourself and letting others see that you believe you are the cream of the crop and others will begin to treat you that way!! Remember no one will love/like you if you hate yourself because that negativity/ugliness comes out in your character and the way you interact with others. You need to seek God first and maybe pursue an education so that you can learn more about black people and the major contributions we have made to the world. There are people who fear the strength and determination that black people exude which is the reason some are intimidated, but it's not always about your black skin. I had a white man tell me once that he would like to get close to me, but was afraid to approach me because he was not sure if he was strong or ambitious enough to keep up with me. I am so-called brown skin and love me. You should love you too. Maybe seeking psychological help to get to the root of why you dislike yourself will help you in the future to recognize your beauty inside and outside. Good Luck!!

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  43. Charmaine16:40

    So sad!I'm a black female from South Africa and I don't hate myself!there isn't a single day that I think of myself as ugly.I think all races are appealing,if you're good looking then it won't be a hustle to get a bf of any race!though I've noticed white guys find it easier to approach a black girl that hangs around white people...

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  44. Anonymous23:38

    i am white and i want all blacks to vanish off

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    1. Anonymous15:30

      well im pretty sure blacks feel the same way about whites. considering blacks were the first of our kind to EVER walk this Earth. ur argument is invalid :-)

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    2. Anonymous10:50

      It's the saddest thing ever to think that this young woman feels this way about herself. Beauty is beauty, and it is found in all skin colours. I live in Toronto, one of the most multi-cultural cities in the world, and while racism and ignorance exist everywhere, we really have to make a concerted effort to rise above the self-loathing it can cause, as difficult as this may be. As a woman of Greek heritage, when I meet people, or consider whom I would date, or who would be good 'friend' material, I never think about their skin colour. I don't see it, never want to see it, don't understand what relevance it has, and absolutely hate that certain elements of society try to make me aware of it (like some of the demons on this forum) - it is pure evil. From a personal point of view, I think brown skin is simply lovely. My best friend is from Trinidad, and his skin is so lovely - a sun-kissed brown with warm golden flecks....boy am I ever envious sometimes...if I had his skin tone I would rock it proudly.

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  45. Anonymous12:50

    I am a half Asian and half white male....I love black women, and women of all races. I do have a few things to say about the black-white world we live in. First, beauty comes from inside, corny, but true. There are lots of people just like me, who will date black females, but, it is difficult. I do not allow obstacles stop me.

    Secondly, and forgive me if this sounds racist, but I am trying to tell it the way I see it, a lot of what you say is true, black people do not work together for the common good, and like crabs in a bucket, tend to pull each other down. I regard black males, not all but at least a majority as not goal oriented, and not really on top of their game. When I see a white women with a black man at a restaurant, Ive noticed the white women almost always pays.

    White and Asian men tend to take care of their woman, and respect them better than a black male will. Just my observations, from growing up in a black neighborhood my entire life, and going to school with whites. Of course everyone is different and have different preferences when looking for a mate. So whatever floats your boat. I would not be too hard on yourself or even hate yourself. Instead embrace yourself, and try and look to date other races. There are plenty of men out there that would love to be with you, finding them is the hard part. Have an open mind, forget about what others say, do your own thing.

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    1. Have you never met a black doctor, barrister, newscaster, scientist, nurse, teacher????????????????????? How sad.

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  46. Anonymous09:10

    Move to London. There's loads of black people here!

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  47. Anonymous13:04

    An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me.. My name is desmond mark i live in Australia,and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{ogojidogospirituallovespelltemple@live.com}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who did not call me for the past seven {5}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {ogojidogospirituallovespelltemple@live.com},if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back. So thanks to the ogojidogolovespell for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.{ogojidogospirituallovespelltemple@live.com}
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    Hello my there friend am happy for the great work of Dr ogojidogo

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  48. Anonymous23:19

    My boyfriend and I broke up in MAY after I found him scoping out women on various dating sites and finding out that he had actually picked up a woman in a bar while I was at my family’s Xmas party. We had a closure talk in JUNE and we were talking about remaining friends. In march we went out one more time when he took me to lunch for many birthday. He told me how beautiful I was and hugged and kissed me. It was like old times. A few days later we had a huge blowout fight. And he told me never to contact him again and that he hates me. Completely devastating. I haven’t called or anything since then…well one email last month with no response. I miss him like crazy and wonder how he is. I deleted him from Facebook right after we broke up and deleted all but one mutual friend . I want to talk to him but I don’t think he will ever want to. I tried dating someone else very briefly and i just couldn’t do it. I miss my ex more than i’ve ever missed any ex. I’ve tried so hard to move on and I’m just as heart broken as I was day one. 3 months seems too long to still be devastated. one day i came across Dr Kate love spell on internet on how he rebuild relationship and make it grow forever so i contacted her for help and explain all my problems to her, she guarantee me that after the spell in he next 24 hours me love will come back asking for my forgiveness that he still love and cherish me, after the spell, the next morning i was so so surprise that my jeff call me on phone asking me to forgive him, thank you once again Dr Kate he just came back thank you thank. reach her email she is a woman that fell others pain (katelovespell@hotmail.com)

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  49. Anonymous06:19

    Hi My name is Bruno Rico' just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage... I was married for 7years with 2kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time... it got worse at a point that she filed for divorce... I tried my best to make her change her mind & stay with me cause i loved her with all my heart and didn't want to loose her but everything just didn't work out... she moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce... I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out... I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice... He did special prayers and used roots and herbs... Within 7 days she called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma she had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our third child. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news... Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need's it... You can email him via dr.akhidenorlovespell@yahOO.com Don't give up just yet, the different between 'Ordinary' & 'Extra-Ordinary' is the 'Extra' so make extra effort to save your marriage/relationship if it's truly worth it. you can also call (Dr Akhidenor) on +2348161850195.

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  50. Anonymous23:35

    I cant speak for people in the UK, but the self hate in America stems from anti-segregation. Whites and Blacks are finding themselves living amongst a race of people that outnumber them and make them feel different, when all they really want is to be normal. These people end up acting like the race that they were raised around and become outcasts amongst their own people as well as the race that they are acting like.
    If you think it's hard to be a black female trying to fit in, in a white town. Try being a white male that wants to fit in, in the black neighborhood that he was raised in. At least white people are accepting of black people that aren't ghetto. Blacks are so cruel to anyone that isn't black. If you came up wearing baggy clothes and listening to rap music because that's what was considered cool in your high school, you were called a perpetrator that was just trying to steal black culture. Then you get called a poser or a wigger by other white people because you aren't familiar with anything other than black culture.
    If we were still segregated, there wouldn't be any outcasts that feel out of place and unwanted. Whites would live with whites and blacks would live with blacks and everything would be normal.

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  51. Anonymous05:34

    My name is opel luran am from UNITED STATES, this is to inform you that i have found a true spell caster who brought back my divorce husband in just two days after 3years of separation we are now happy indeed you are a man of your world, Dr adamabu you are really a father, my lover is now the kind of man i want him to be my times of tears are over now. please contact him on his email anyone who has problem in his or her relationship adamabuokenuzo@gmail.com is the right place to go and it is 100% sure and garrantee you that your lover will surely come back just 48 hours so please contact him now on adamabuokenuzo@gmail.com

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  52. Anonymous15:26

    I agree with this comment, growing up as a working class girl and now moving into middle class. All my life I have been like the posh girl. I also do not get along with other black girls :(. I struggle and find it very hard as people perceive me as something I am not on both sides. I can't win, black girls seem to think I am above them when I am only trying to be the best I can be and not get caught up as a statistic. I get treated differently now by people because i have a masters degree and live in a certain area. I keep pushing though, I wish I was Asian. I really do feel like I am an Asian girl trapped in a black girls body as I literally get on so well with Asian culture and also many Caucasian cultures. Wish that sometimes I did not have this life, but I am trying to be strong and just keep going with this life, knowing I will get what I want. Happiness and Freedom... eventually...

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  53. I am a house wife from a rich family. By god's bless i had everything, but after 10 years of my marriage i was not having any child. we met so much doctors but nothing happen good. Then my relative lady of my sister in law suggest me to contact to guruji. Guruji gave me some simple spells and some worships guruji himself done for me, and after 3 month i get report that i was pragnent. today i am a happy mother of a baby boy of 8 months. he also make my husband to love me more than ever he reunite me and my husband for good and today we live happily this is just your bless guruji. he also healed my husband from a deadly diseases which i cant say we conducted a test and my husband came out positive after spending money in the hospital for years.Thank you So much if you need his help you can contact him via his private mail gurujispellhome@yahoo.com you will not regret it thanks

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  54. My mouth is full of testimonies, Am BRANDY my husband left the home for three years to SPAIN for a tourist, where he meant this lady and he was bewitch by the girl my husband refuse to come back home again, i cry day and night looking for who to help me, i read a news paper about a powerful spell caster called DR UBA and i contacted the spell caster to help me get my lover back to me and he ask me not to worry about it that the gods we fight for me.. He told me by mid-night when all the spirit is at rest he will cast a spell to reunite my lover back to me. and he did in less than 2 days my husband came back to me and started crying that i should for forgive him, i am so happy for what this spell caster did for me and my husband.. DR UBA if you need any help you can contact him with this email address ubaspelltemple@gmail. com

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  55. Good day readers, i want to testify of what the spell caster i found on net did for me. i have been seeking for the help of a spell caster to bring back my run away husband. he left me and our 2kids and elope with his new mistress. He told me he dont want me as his wife again, i did everything possible to get him back none work for me. i saw a testimony about this great spell caster called dr kabaka, he assured me of positive result within 48hours, I decided to give him a try, he cast a spell for me my husband came back begging me for a re-union. i accept him back and now we are living together happily. All my humble thanks to Dr kabaka for saving my marriage. If you need his help, just contact him now via his email KABAKASPELL@GMAIL.COM or his phone number +2348169750752. He will certainly help you too.

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  56. Hello to the world at edge,

    I want you to hear a good testimony of the great love Dr Odige of odigelovespelltemple@yahoo.com) who help me on my time of problems,
    My name is Joyce and i am from France and i am married with 2kids and i had a lovely family before all the problem i want to share with you what happened,my husband use to be very caring and lovely to me and my kids and we were very happy with each other,until a day and we where having a dinner in one of the restaurant in our state and their was a lady who was sitting close to us and i never knew she was interested to have my husband and due to i was with my husband she could not do anything there then after that day,my husband started to maltreat us at home not knowing that he his seeing that lady until a friend came to told me and i confirm it my self it really hurt due to the love we shared before,it really affected me until a friend who came from Africa told me about the powers of Africa spell Doctors specially Dr Odige of odigelovespelltemple@yahoo.com,even if i did not believe in spell i had nothing but to try and to my greatest surprise my husband came back home and beg me and now we are living more happy than before please you all should come together and thanks these great Dr Odige of odigelovespelltemple@yahoo.com,He can also help you if you believe in him and these is contact: http://odigelovespellsolution.webs.com/,thanks thanks once again

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  57. Believe i understand, i am Nigerian but i was raised in the southern part of US where are not.light skin you are.looked down upon, so i.am.in.thesame boat where i wish i.was white more than anything

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  58. Anonymous12:15

    I live in united state, Two years ago i married a lady called juan, we had two children together, we were very happy to be husband and wife, so when i travel on business trip to Brazil, i spent 1 years in Brazil due to my kind of business, i and my wife talked on phone all the time, we chat on the Internet, i never knew that my wife had started cheating on me by going out with her old school friend called Jeff, i never knew something was going wrong till i came back from my trip, then i and My wife started having problems, she goes out and come back late at night, she changed in a strange way that i could not endure, i tried to do everything to please her but it got worst, so one day she left the house and never came back, i tried reaching her but no way i could reach her, i never knew she traveled with her new lover which was mark, i wanted her so much because of the children she left for me and because i loved her so much too, because of the heart break she put me into, i went into search of a real magic spell caster,but I never relented in my search because I want a happy life with my wife, so one morning i saw testimony about a spell caster dr Ola so i contacted him and to my greatest surprise this drolaspelltemple@gmail.com made life meaniful for me again, my wife came back to me, i took her back and I am now settled with my wife by the magic power of dr,Ola spell.contact him on any kind of help you want from him on drolaspelltemple@gmail.com.

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  59. This sounds a little ridiculous to me. I'm sorry but I was raised to love myself and the skin I'm in. You shouldn't feel bad about yourself because no one in UK will date you. First of all, love comes when you least expect it, not while you are sitting around waiting for it wondering why you hate yourself. Guys don't want you because you hate yourself. You seem insecure about yourself and no one wants a girl who doesn't love herself. How can you love someone when you don't love yourself. When you start to love yourself and be proud of who you are you will find your love. I'm sorry if it seems like I'm trying to put you down, but I'm not. It is simple as loving yourself then love will find you. Good luck!

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  60. Anonymous09:19

    I'm an Asian guy and my fiancée is a beautiful black girl from Trinidad&Tobago. I love her so much

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  61. Anonymous05:51

    Hi, this girl should be given strong psychological help because she has been exposed to such circumstance which she has said, being in that environment has had so much negative impact on her. Her mind need to be changed so that she can focus on her natural beauty. As for now she can not be fully convinced because she has already made up her mind and is thinking to do something else. This could lead to any dangerous act if she does not get right advice. What she needs now is a constant and positive appreciation of how she looks like.

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  62. I have to say that black girls are the sexiest girls out there... yes we all get discriminated at some point... but its part of life. I'm latino 6'1 I'm from NYC.. I've been told I'm attractive and hec yeah I'd date a classy black girl, a lot more to love. most white girls are all about expensive make up(which after you take a shower, the ugliness comes out)

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  63. Anonymous17:37

    In a world where everyone wants to be black BUT CAN'T you will find the psychology of projection, imputation based on envy. This is the trick where if you can be the person you envy, you pretend you detest anything like that person. In this world, everyone wants to be black and the psychological evidence is in slander against blackness as much as tanning parlors for burning skin. Each individual reveals the effect of the trick on them based on the conditioning that accept. Everyone is born with a brain as well as the normal five senses and more. If they are used well in good proportion, you don't fall for the tricks. So, that's that.

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  64. Anonymous22:16

    I hope its not to late to post. To start I am a white Dude,stud, man however its phrases in the UK. I for one am highly attracted to black women. Like u stated men still like sex, its because in every race their are women that are gorgeous, and there are many black Women. I.had a very close black friend in college,she was from Holand, I'm in the Us. As well as we got along and I was attracted to her we never had sex because I'm a dooshbag sentimental kind of old fashioned guy and you sleep with someone when you want to be with them,at least to me. To make a long story short at the time we never became a couple because my fear was if we had children they would have a very hard time growing up in society. The other black miss would treat them different, the other white kids, and.I felt it would be very hard for them to get ahead in careers late in life, not impossible,just a lot less opportunities,and I wanted my children to have it easier in life...Now I realize being out of college that there are alot of successful black males within organizations,in the us not as many executive positions, however that number changes every year... Also there is a stereotype that blackwomen are loud ghetto, vindictive, not as educated, that's bs I know it's been created by the entertainment industry,and decades of segregation, however it appears true when spotted with people like that. The old expression birds of a kind fly in a line... The characteristics are true amongst any race, I can say that about some native Americans I know, some Irish girls,Bosnian,Mexican as well. It comes down to fear though, either because the guy may like u like I did Vivian, and would want a relationship eventually marriage and kids, and they are worried about their children's success, or because they may stereotype before filling getting to know the girl, or they see how she behaves with her friends and determines how she is...over time,they ring true. At the current moment Im little jaded with any woman, cause I have this belief they are all girls...So to answer your questionInwould get with a black girl now, that is of course after observing her from a far, that goes for any girl. So to answer ur question its just fear :)

    Joshua Lee

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  65. Anonymous13:32

    You should come to the USA I promise you the brothers will be all over you you look gorgeous in your picture

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  66. Ugly person Ȋ̝̊̅§ already ugly and τ̅ђe only thing that can make him or her beautiful Ȋ̝̊̅§ his or her character..beauty Ȋ̝̊̅§ not I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ τ̅ђe skin colour..beauty Ȋ̝̊̅§ every where..I know I A̶̲̥̅̊♏ beautiful and I can never be intimidated by colour Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ skin...white girls gets jealous Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ M̶̲̥̅γ skin when they see me I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ beauty..some may seams t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ be repulsive but its not because Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ U̶̲̥̅̊Я̩̥̊ skin colour its because Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ U̶̲̥̅̊Я̩̥̊ uniqueness....let me educate U̶̲̥̅̊ more..there A̶̲̥̅̊я̲̣̥ε whites who don't like their colour simply because they A̶̲̥̅̊я̲̣̥ε too white and they wana look a bit darker..some black don't like their skin simply because they look too darker and wana look a bit lighter...τ̅ђe better colour ever Ȋ̝̊̅§ middle white like τ̅ђe indian americans and a light darker skin like mine...I love M̶̲̥̅γ colour S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ much... S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ welcome t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ M̶̲̥̅γ world oguejiofor.blogspot.com let's talk about τ̅ђe peoples life

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  67. Anonymous12:51

    This is the most ignorant thing i have ever read you're such a hypocrite you are hating on your own race the way people hate on our race you deserve to die because you're a disgusting person you don't deserve to live on this earth you vile bitch!

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  68. Anonymous21:10

    People of all races are beautiful and ugly, smart and dumb, you just need to be secure with who you are. If you are secure and act like a decent human being you will make friends and find love. I'm a white guy and quite frankly I don't like being around black people generally speaking. The reason is cultural, I don't get black culture. Where I live they tend to be rude, loud, violent and uneducated. If blacks want to change how the world perceives them they need to change their own culture and start valuing things like education, being assiduous

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  69. Anonymous21:16

    Post continued - and being violent. Once you change your culture your race can progress. It's not that I hate blacks for being blacks, I just don't want to be around people with those cultural values. I served in the army with a few black guys who are my goods friends now. They acted like decent people so I treated the a s such. I personally despise white trash as well and red neck culture. Why is it wrong if in ant to associate only with people who are like me? People who work, volunteer, give instead of steal, are educated and affluent. Call me a racist I don't care. It just happens to be that people who share my values are almost exclusively white. What is so wrong with wanting to be with your own race? I don't commit violence against blacks, Mexicans or Asians, I just simply want to be left alone.

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    1. Anonymous18:27

      All black people don't steal that's like saying all whites are Successful You white people just need god in your life and stop worshiping the devil y'all are lazy trash that's mad at blacks because they refuse to obey. Then yall try to use lame excuses like cultural reasons how stupid doesn't that sound you don't see black's saying they hate whites because of what music they listen to etc whites just need to worry about their fucking self

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  70. Anonymous00:24

    Sheesh I am curious to see what Naomi looks like. White guy who doesn't date white women anymore.

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  71. Anonymous22:15

    You started off talking about no one likes you for your race. Singling you out because you're black. Then you judged your own race singling a whole race (your own) out with negativity. GOD doesn't make mistakes. Learn you true history. ❤ YOURSELF!!!

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    1. Anonymous09:20

      i think you love yourself plenty, and you are proud of your looks and accomplishments. But no one wants to be in love with oneself all alone on the planet because the rest of the world associates you with negative media images and bad experiences . Whats hard to live with is that the part of society that you aspire to be a part of will not even give you an opportunity to show what you can do. They do not seem to need or want anything you have to offer, you admire them and they try like hell to avoid black people. If you do enter that part of society you feel the ostracism heavily. And you really cannot blame them, but still, you are NOT one of those negative stereotypes
      In the eighties black people were on their way to making themselves a commodity in the world, worth investing in the Motown artist, Michael Jordan, Michael Jackson, George Foreman, and black owned firms and magazines and television networks were on the rise. For a while it was pretty kool to be black in America. Oprah was a real phenom but her constant depiction of black people as poor miserable ignorant uneducated pathetic slaves abusing and mistreating each other embarrassed black America, that movie Precious must have been truly humiliating.
      For some reason the pre civil rights black generation wants to brainwash and program young and upcoming blacks with the ideas the world is against them, holding them down, murdering them etc just to make a profit.
      When that generation is gone and those ugly histories removed from school books where young peoples minds are branded with images saying they are not good enough, not the same, hated, white people are your enemies etc black people will be a wonderful thing to behold in the world. Their minds will be free and they will feel equal, and at home with the rest of the human race. People will not have to be guarded around black people because the majority of them have issues, or might be an ex-convict, drug addict, homeless or negative or violent criminal etc those stereotypes will be replaced with positive ones.
      White people have the sense to portray themselves in the best light before the world. Their media makes them look affluent, educated, beautiful, elite etc... so they are sought after world wide no matter how to the contrary all that maybe for most of them or how guilty they maybe of harming other nations historically etc. So everyone is relaxed around them and welcoming to them. Most of them are nothing of the sort and worse in some cases than black people, but those images of prominence are firmly etched in our minds that we still give them preference.
      So it may help to do an international PR makeover someday.

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  72. Anonymous15:18

    I feel for you. I would hate being a nigger too.

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    1. It must be terrible to have so little brain that you cannot even write an entire paragraph. I would hate to be white, too if I was illiterate, but, as it happens, I've been brought up extremely well and have the brain-power and intelligence to welcome all types of people. I also feel great pity towards those minority whites who have clearly been thwarted in love, life and friends so much that they become TROLLS on decent sites like this. My white friends and co-workers would be so ASHAMED to be associated with classless white trash like you Lol

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    2. Anonymous18:32

      The feeling is mural I wouldn't want to be a redneck, white trash, illiterate, simple minded , angry,selfish, insecure,SMALL penis bastard xD I mean the list goes and on

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  73. Anonymous17:10

    It doesnt matter your color....its all about content of character like Martin Luther King said...Misery loves company and flowers attract sunshine.Be a flower.

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  74. I would hate myself too if i was black

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    1. Anonymous18:35

      I would I hate myself if I was white . Whites are always so worry about blacks like GTHO miserable redneck cracker bitches mind yours Black's ain't worried about y'all so wtf are y'all still carrying on shit that happen years ago move around

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  75. Anonymous08:46

    NOOOOOOO, Black is always beauty.
    BLACK DON'T CRACK MY DEAR

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  76. Anonymous07:49

    Black is the beginning; Truth hidden in the past. Black is a History; Veiled away from the Mass.

    And the song goes like this...

    Fresher than tony rebel's vestibules at african street festivals
    My incredible women is, plentiful
    Over the years I met a few, none of them compare to you
    Preparin' you to make food bearable, somethin' terrible, let's see:
    You fruitful, beautiful, smart, lovable, huggable
    Doable like art, suitable to be part
    Of my life, coppertone, oh you copyright infringement
    Pay you bidness ten cents, way back in the day
    It's like I'm standin there you know appreciatin god's design
    And then you showed up, it's like you read my mind
    Damn she's fine, I think I add the r-e, in front of that
    And see if she d, to get, with a cat like me

    -Black Star 1998 Album-

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  77. Anonymous10:43

    Okay, I'm blonde, blue eyed male from Germany, and I'm as white as it can get. And I LOVE black girls, and I'm not the only one around here to do so. It might be a problem with where you live, but in general I don't really think it matters. And be proud of your race, don't hate yourself because you're black.

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  78. Anonymous07:55

    I live in Europe and I am dark black with kinky natural hair- the hair which a comb does not go through! I love my afro, my colour skin, and I love it when I tan! I have always been one of the few blacks from primary school to University! My race has rarely been an issue, though the few occasions where it has been, my parents reminded me that I was a person, and I was equal to everyone, so I should be proud of who I was and to ignore the stupidity!

    I did have a white barbie for a little while and my mum use to hate watching me play with it, so the moment she found a black doll, she bought that and binned my white barbie, as she felt, I needed to have a doll that I could related to!

    In any case I have had lots of white guys ask me out and wanting me to be their girlfriend! I have had English, Spanish, German, Italian, Greek, American, Belgian white guys after me! I normally NEVER go with guys who consider me EXOTIC, that is a big red flags! I wil usually go out with white guys who like me for my personality! I am average looking but all these guys have told me and made me feel beautiful!

    Your post made me feel sad! So I want to say that they are white guys out there, who like black girls, and there are white guys who will have prejudice! If you feel all the ghetto girls out there are giving YOU a bad name then it is for you to show that NOT all black girls are ghetto or "rachet"!!! All my black female friends, are sassy, funny and intelligent, those are the kind of black people I hang out with! And all my black girlfriends have been approached by white guys!

    And as there are ghetto black people, there are some mean, stupid, ghetto/rich white people! NEVER forget that!

    I am sad that you don't like your colour skin but PLEASE don't put me and my girlies in the same category as you and the ghetto blacks that you don't like!

    ADVICE: If you really want to go out with a white guy, then go to a bar in which the type of white guys that you like frequent and be the best person that you can be without putting the black race down or being insecure! The only men that like insecure women, are the misogynistic macho bastards, watch out for those guys! I have a good track record with white guys I don't the likes of you ruining the image of cool black girls like myself!!!!

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  79. Anonymous14:03

    One more thing, I was the anonymous girl who said, I've had lots of white guys of different nationality ask me out on a date and who didn't just want me for sex!

    In my last comment I had painted a decent light of white guys but I don't want you to think, that i have it easy! For every sweet white guy that has fallen for me, I have had to deal with 10 stupid/ignorant/"racist" or arrogant white guy!

    I have had to deal with prejudice such as the following comments:


    You don't sound black
    You don't have an African accent
    Are you an illegal immigrant
    You are talking to me because you want papers/visas
    You must be a gold digger
    You must live in the ghetto part of the city
    You must live where all the Africans live in the city
    You smell nice!!!! (this is usually said in a surprised voice!)
    You smell different
    You must be used to black guys with big p*nis
    Your hair is weird or your hair feels like a brillo pad!
    I don't like black girls!
    You are pretty for a black girl
    and so forth.......

    So whist I told you how lucky I have been, i also constantly have to overcome these comments and this type of trail of thoughts! Despite all these conceited and close minded white men i come across, i don't dwell on them! The moment I hear one of the comments, I decide if it is worth my time to educate them! Some guys i will walk away from as they are lost causes and others i might take a second of my time to clarify that the stereotype that they believe in, is just a stereotype!

    So stop crying, overcome your fears and their stereotype, go out there and be fabulous!!!

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  80. Hello I am Lisa Jerry ,I am out here to spread this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex husband back.I was going crazy when my husband left me and my two kids for another woman last month, But when i met a friend that introduced me to Priest Ohio the great messenger to the oracle of priest Ohio solution home,I narrated my problem to Priest Ohio about how my ex Husband left me and my two kids and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,24 hours later,My Ex Husband called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me and the kids before now and one week after my Husband called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in a very big company here in USA were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact Priest Ohio on his personal email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct on: priestohiosolutionhome@gmail.com or contact him through his website at http://priestohiosolutionhome.webs.com and get your problems solved like me..... ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: priestohiosolutionhome@gmail.com or contact him through his website at http://priestohiosolutionhome.webs.com

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  81. Anonymous20:08

    Black people aren't ugly just super fucking annoying g
    And embarrassing straight up. Plus White people have more cash and they do shit lile sky diving and playing with lions which is LOL. They can't dance for shit but at least I get good Christmas presents.

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    1. Anonymous18:46

      Have you gotten to know every black person on the earth? NOOO So can you say "they" are annoying .. You probably haven't even met a black person in your ignorant life. Also how dare you say all whites have money their are many succeful well educated black's so do your research before you start stereotyping xD Our president is black for god sakes get over it

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  82. After being in relationship with Wilson for seven years,he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back but I am the type that don't believed in spell, I had no choice than to try it, I meant a spell caster called EZE MALAKA and I email him, and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell caster, his email: extremewhitelovespell@yahoo. com you can email him if you need his assistance in your relationship or anything. CAN NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT YOU SIR HIS WEBSITE ADDRESS is http://extremewhitelovespell.webs.com CONTACT HIM NOW FOR SOLUTION TO ALL YOUR PROBLEMS.

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  83. Hello friends, an awesome and amazing testimony about a Great spell caster i really love to share. My name is Jerry Mike from the United States. Getting my wife back is what i least expected and could never imagine. I and my wife have been married for five years and we have been living happily but all of a sudden she changed completely and turned away from me and i never knew what was going on, i tried to ask her but she refused to tell me what the problem is, and as time went on she sought for a divorce. I was so worried and confused, and i did all my possible best to get her back but it was all in vain and i thought all hope was lost, and during my search for a way out, a friend of mine who had similar problem told me about a great spell caster called Great Ovoko who helped him to solve his problem. I never use to believe in spell casting in my entire life because i never thought it will work but i tried to give this man a chance and to my greatest surprise, he did his work and it yielded a positive result and i was able to get my wife back. Even after the spell caster did his work, i discovered that my wife fell so much in love with me like never before. This spell casting isn't brain washing but he opened up her eyes to see how much i love and needed her, and now i am a happy man again and so i am using this opportunity to tell anyone having similar problem to visit him on Ovokolovespell@gmail. com and he will help you because he is so real, trust worthy and powerful. Once again thank you Great Ovoko and may your gods always reward you for your good deeds.

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  84. Anonymous12:03

    I believe in the U.K. They are very racist :-(! Its so sad! I see your picture you are beautiful :-)! Any man white or black should be attracted to you I dont see why not try dating web sites. In america there would be many men who would be attracted to you and mixed race kids are so beautiful. My mother is black from Puerto Rico my dad is white spaniard i am light skinned pale with wide nose thick course hair and my mother show me to love myself no matter what my down fall is i am very pale and people think im white when i show my mothers picture they are in shock remember you will age better than most white women . Once i was at a Walmart in usa a lady wow i never seen a white woman with afrikan hair i told her im not white imPuerto Rican we are mixed with White,Black,Tainos arawak indians.

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  85. Very insecure individual and it's quite sad to see it's coming from a grown up woman. I really wish these kind of pity party posts will stop being published publicly. I'm a 29 yr old black girl from Nigeria who lives in Germany and men from different ethnic groups constantly ask me out for dates. No matter your skin shade, no heterosexual gentleman (note I said gentleman, not rapper or gangster) can resist being attracted to a well dressed, well mannered and friendly lady. A simple advice from the great Maya Angelou: If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude." - Maya Angelou

    Men are not attracted to women who don't love themselves. There are enough men on this planet who you as a gorgeous black woman can date, stop concentrating on only one race of men and enjoy your life. You're old enough to know that. All you have to do is open your eyes when you walk around, I see thousands of black women with white or asian men here in Germany and even more in UK when I'm visiting friends in London.

    Please work on you insecurities and just google black female interracial relationship and you will CLEARLY see that all men are attracted to black females.

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  86. Anonymous21:08

    I'm a black woman and proud of it! Black people come in so many variations of shades and colors. Its a beautiful race of people. You definitely have self hatred and psychological issues. You need to see a therapist-quick!

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  87. Anonymous11:44

    I completely relate, im 28 and ive battled with this my whole life.. I dont know what to do anymore, I just want to be happy and it feels like it will never happen. I have six uncles, they all date only white women. Both my sister's are mixed raced- im dark shinned full black and I dont look like most other black girls! Im not curvy at all!

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  88. Anonymous08:39

    i am a black guy i think in every race there is an obsession to be better and on top but we black people are a huge show offs and want to be better than each other(better than blacks ) i am ignorant i have no idea why i think it is the environment i grew up in i lost such a nice girl because of this i wish i cold take the negative out of me but never my color

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  89. Anonymous18:34

    I agree with her so much. Like I can seriously relate.

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  90. Are you serious? This must be a joke, tell me this is a joke o.0 how dare you? -_______- read some history take a sociology class do something, open that mind plz cause right now you are the one shaming our race!

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  91. Anonymous12:50

    The most important part of your life is your relationship with Jesus Christ.
    He will give you strength to endure ALL your trails. Those folks that SEEM happy, are NOT
    as happy as they appear. We ALL have problems and challenges, and that's the way God
    wants it! Christ WILL carry you through!
    Don't worry about what other's are doing. Get closer to God by accepting Jesus Christ has your
    personal savior. God made you the way your are, and He DOES NOT MAKE MISTAKES!

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  92. Anonymous15:54

    Is this real? Haha I have a hard time believing this isn't just some cry for attention. Also practice your grammer and writing skills. People may like you more. In regards to your problem however, I have never met a black girl who isn't proud of her heritage, (in Denver anyway,) so I am reluctant to believe you. If you do feel this way I would suggest taking action to better yourself in other ways. Confidence goes a long way. It will make u happy and others will be attracted to you because of it. Good luck in any case.

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  93. Anonymous18:18

    i think black girls are gorgeous and sadly i live where there aren't many, i'd happily date a black girl, i like the personality most of them have obviously the individual is different and i like there skin tone, i aint against white girls either, just ever since i was little, i've always had crushes on the darker girls :)

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  94. Anonymous02:10

    I am white male and I love black girls.
    I will be a very happy man the day I get with a black girl
    Very happy

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  95. Omg come to america and voice your opinion...cuz i will personally slap the ignorence at og you

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  96. Anonymous08:07

    As a black male who has predominantly dated Caucasian women ( English and Continental European types ) I empathize with you, as I understand my own way of thinking and the thinking of many of my other black friends who have contributed to the way in which you feel.

    I'd say in my younger days (I'm 27) as a young black male you were almost cultivated to like Caucasian women, what you see on TV, rap videos etc and vice versa. There was almost an innate fascination with them, especially as many of them had the same fascination with us. And when you found Caucasian women who found black males attractive there was always this unwritten form of sexual tension / attraction which is very clear cut. You know what they want from you and they know what you want from them ( in my experience).

    But, I must say as I have a grown older and matured I have most definitely realized that I have skipped the boat, overlooking some of the most beautiful creatures around.. black women. Not just in a physical sense (some of their physiques, far superior to Caucasian women) but so much more, there outlook, there morale, values, strength... simply beautiful.

    Anyways the morale of my divulged story is, you as a black woman, should be proud to be black. You have a lot to offer men full stop. More than likely your upbringing has defined your courageousness, strength, outlook and many other virtues which as a man far supersede the attractiveness of purely physical traits. I hope other black men such as myself realize what there missing out on.

    On a light note try Tinder. And please remember all people are individual despite the stereotyping I've just displayed in my story. We're not all 'ghetto', some of us have good paying legitimate jobs and even enjoy watching the 'Only way is Essex' (nah just kidding that's a step too far lol).

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  97. Anonymous08:44

    I am so sorry. You are beautiful. I hope my child never feels this way. I am an African American woman with a very handsome hispanic man, we are saught after, everyone wants a black woman even other women, I turn people down every day we don't even have to be pretty to be pretty. We just have to be exotic, aka, brown. I'm not that pretty and I have to fight off people who are attracted to me every day, you're pretty. You are just projecting your beliefs on your face and body language. Spend some time in the mirror

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  98. Anonymous08:12

    I am sorry to hear your story , but I can help you that is to buy a 5litres of white glass paint and pour from head to toe and declare you a white person

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  99. Anonymous08:19

    sorry to hear your story and how you hate your self , you can buy your self 5 litres of white glass paint pour it from the top of your head to toe and declare your self a white person . if all other advises fail and this one the seek GOD'S help .

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  100. Anonymous11:46

    Hi I'm an Associate Producer at The Bill Cunningham Show and we're doing a show about people who hate their race/skin color next week. Contact me at 1-212-419-7431 or 1-646-673-4474 to tell your story

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  101. Anonymous14:03

    I definitely know how you feel until I met guys who went to both races and I now black am in committed relationship with a white man yet many women think its because i'm adopted and my parents are white but that's not true you'll hopefully find a open minded guy like mine.

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  102. Anonymous17:27

    I understand and feel the same way, parents are together married for over 25yrs. But that didn't change the things I went through as a young black dark skin female growing up in baltimore. From the 80's to mid 90's. I had to deal with the redborn, high yellow females. As were better then those of us that are dark skin. Always pick last out of a group of girls. Also light skin girl like keeping dark skin girl around because they believe its made them look even more better. When ever I would say anything to a female with fair skin about how different dark skin females are treated they wouldn't to hear it. And would become upset like they were the ones going through this. Over the years I have become more comfortable with myself. And have discovered that males of all walks of life would treat lightskin worst than darkskin female( I have to smile a little bit) why because after years of being treat like nothing by lightskin females they are now going through the same thing mistreated like any other females. I've recently sat down with a well-known gentleman and respected Gentleman in reference to the dark skin light skin Debate. he do that he loves all women but he found he tu as a young man would always go for light skin long hair females. discovering he had also good into the slavery mentality of house nigga vs field nigger. and realizing this he was the one that said light skin girls we're like white women to him. and how he always thought that the lighted they were the better of you would be. until he realized that most of them had bad attitudes, selfish and basically live off of their looks. he made a reference to lightskin females are half baked. they look good smell good but had no substance at all. All the while dark skinned female had to have substance in order to compete. Very intelligent down to earth and prepared for life. So what I discovered was it's not about how you look, but about how you feel about yourself.

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      Your so ignorant I'm LIGHT skin and I don't feel I'm better than anyone .. Darker girls are just jealous and insecruse with they self whites can care less about light vs dark we are all black in their eyes no matter how long your hair is and how light you are they still can give 2 two fucks about us because they are simple minded retards like you

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  103. I think you are beautiful and you should never be ashamed to be black. Actually, that'a a bone of contention with me as there are no black people - your skin color is brown. A beautiful and deep, mahogany shade that, when seen for what it is, is strikingly beautiful!! Love yourself, baby. There is nothing dark or dirty about you.

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  104. Anonymous23:34

    I was living in London and did try to date black girls blah they often push guys away alot or act ghetto. (often due to societal and peer pressure).

    London is mad place. On average black girls are very sexy but alot depends on the character :D In London girls expected to act like a bitch or be very shy while black people often are passionate and fun. So perhaps tell cliches to go and have fun.

    I went to with black gf once in some London bar, mid class people. People were staring cause I held her hand and well it was clear there is some sexual tension, game, fun :)

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  105. I wish I was white to thank you some one fill my pain

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  106. I wish I was white to thank you some one fill my pain

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  107. Naomi is a beautiful name and you appear very attractive. Always love God first and then love yourself. I was attracted to several girls in school that would not date me b/c of my being white. I would love to have had a chance at a relationship with a self confident educated lovely black woman. Love who you are and don't change who you are for others. If people cannot accept or love you as God designed you, then you don't need them! Best of luck to you! Love yourself!

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  108. Anonymous08:06

    I'm not black and I hate being black too.

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  109. Anonymous08:43

    Wow it looks like your insecurities got the most of you. I really do pity you and hope you learn to love yourself and your people. You call all black people ignorant but I'd say your ignorant for stereotyping, you need to grow and accept yourself because you will never change - you'll always be black so deal with it. Also you shouldn't blame your skin tone and features for not being dated seriously I know so many black woqman with different race husbands and boyfriends. I'm black and really happy to be it. You should seek help. Fast.

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  110. Anonymous09:41

    I think people should respect what God gave them like black women they have dark skin, beautiful big lips and a big booty. and white women have long silky hair or blue eyes or fair skin and be proud of what you are

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  111. Anonymous17:50

    Bitch you sound dumb as fuck like really??you disgust me. You really need to get out more because black is beautiful. Here in America there are many races that think black women is beautiful

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  112. Anonymous11:45

    I too feel that black men prefer white women or anything close to them. My ex bf left me for a white woman and then proceeded to treat her better than he's ever treated me and it makes me sick because I was loyal and i always did right by him. It's so bad that now when I see a white woman or light skinned female I get angry inside...I smile but deep down I'm pissed. However, even in all my bitterness right now i don't wish that i was something different. And honestly sweetie you shouldn't either.

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  113. Anonymous23:16

    i hate being black too and my dick is not even as big as a lot of people think

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  114. Anonymous21:53

    I think you need to see the shrink or move to America.

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  115. Anonymous19:53

    Thats a screwed up way to feel. I should note I am a "black girl." However, I do not abide by my stereotypes because I believe that I, and anyone else who has ever felt bound to adhere to their stereotype, is better than that. The sooner you learn to stop trying to escape your social stigma and focus on who you are from the inside out the better of you will be hun. You are not your "nappy hair" and you are not your dark skin. You are your mind. You are your soul. You control who you are and no one else does. I can't teach this lesson. Hopefully life can. I wish you well.

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  116. Anonymous02:37

    Why dont you just kill yourself?

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      I'm also a Black woman who hates being Black. And I am going to kill myself. I'm saving up for my funeral. Fuck this place. And fuck you too.

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      wtf???

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    3. Anonymous10:52

      DONT kill yourself! There are so many white ppl that go tanning wanting our skin color. Love yourself!

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  117. Anonymous09:08

    I agree. I live in Phoenix, which is a predominantly white, and kind of racist. I always feel like I dont belong. I am mixed with something, but I am also lifeguard, which means that when I come back to school I am super dark brown. Sometimes I am confident in my skin, but other times I wish I was lighter and prettier. No white guys, or any guys really take interest in me, and I do not think I am unattractive.
    To those of you who say, love yourself, it is hard to do so when no one loves you.

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  118. Anonymous17:13

    I am from Australia, i want to testify of how i got back my boyfriend after breakup, my boyfriend broke up with me last year, i did all i could to get him back but failed until i saw a post on a love forum about a spell caster who helps people regain back lost love at first i doubted if it was real because i never believed in spells but decided to give it a try, when i contacted this spell caster via email, he helped me cast a spell and i got back my love within 72hours (3days) Contact this spell caster today for your relationship or marriage issues via this email ikedispiritualtemple@gmail.com

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  119. Anonymous17:14

    I am from Australia, i want to testify of how i got back my boyfriend after breakup, my boyfriend broke up with me last year, i did all i could to get him back but failed until i saw a post on a love forum about a spell caster who helps people regain back lost love at first i doubted if it was real because i never believed in spells but decided to give it a try, when i contacted this spell caster via email, he helped me cast a spell and i got back my love within 72hours (3days) Contact this spell caster today for your relationship or marriage issues via this email ikedispiritualtemple@gmail.com

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  120. I am from Australia, i want to testify of how i got back my boyfriend after breakup, my boyfriend broke up with me last year, i did all i could to get him back but failed until i saw a post on a love forum about a spell caster who helps people regain back lost love at first i doubted if it was real because i never believed in spells but decided to give it a try, when i contacted this spell caster via email, he helped me cast a spell and i got back my love within 72hours (3days) Contact this spell caster today for your relationship or marriage issues via this email ikedispiritualtemple@gmail.com

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  121. Anonymous21:21

    I am a white male in my mid-twenties and I find black females so unattractive that I try to avoid them entirely. Nonetheless, best of luck!

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  122. Anonymous02:32

    Yeah,it's me again,You make me laugh,if you hate your skin so much,stop wasting money on wigs (they dont make you look "blond" they only show your lack of pride),stop using cosmetics to bleach your complexion,you should just kill yourselves,you wont be missed ;)

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      You are sick! Obviously you are fucked up in the head.

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  123. Anonymous13:36

    Hey baby quit talking like that you're a beautiful Black Woman with a mind and I'm sure a good heart stay strong baby.

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  124. You are seriously messed up in the head. I am black african American 100% I am from the ghetto in New Jersey USA. I love my skin and my natrual hair. I love my chinky eyes and big lips. My boyfriend is polish and we love each others skin. Liaten you woll never find love bt hating yourself. I find you offensive, you wish to disassociate yourself with your own people. Evrry race has ignorance, racism, sexism, and flaws. Why must you put down your own. All white ppl are not beautiful. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You need to boost your self esteem.

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  125. Hi My name is 'Bruno Rico' just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage... I was married for 7years with 2kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time... it got worse at a point that she filed for divorce... I tried my best to make her change her mind & stay with me cause i loved her with all my heart and didn't want to loose her but everything just didn't work out... she moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for divorce... I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out... I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice... He did special prayers and used roots and herbs... Within 7 days she called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma she had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily, the kids are happy too and we are expecting our third child. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news... Just thought I should share my experience cause I strongly believe someone out there need's it... You can email him via akhidenorlovespell@gmail.com Don't give up just yet, the different between 'Ordinary' & 'Extra-Ordinary' is the 'Extra' so make extra effort to save your marriage/relationship if it's truly worth it.

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  126. Listen, you are the only one you ever. Think. Why do we even have all these differences? For reasons that in modern 1st world countries don't even exist. Eye colour, Hair, skin and build differences were necessary adaptations to help survive the particular harshness,weather, and stressors of the natural environments which ancestors, from various places on the Earth, had deal with to survive. If some little variation, helped a warrior survive a battle, kept a woman from miscarrying, or helped keep our predecessors from starving, or other fatal harm, those people lived to deposit this trait into the gene pool. What natural attributes helped keep us alive in one part of the world could have done us in, These advantages may not have been one ,somewhere else. If you think about original climates each race came from,and how each distinctive feature might have been a benefit to adapting to it, our physical diversities make sense. Life was about survival, not so much about what's cute. Vanity is a luxury, and standards of beauty weren't standard,(no Ebony or Cosmo!). Love yourself , you were wonderfully, and awesomely made.Develope the "self " God gave you.Discover your own kind of beauty, take care of that unique, precious person that you were born to be, choose clothes that flatter your shape, wear shades that enhance your inner glow. Love your real hair, washi it frequently, in heavenly scents and treasure it's genetically unique softness. No other race has it! And love often "happens" when we are not pacing the floor waiting, but shows up while we do other things. Pray. The right man will love you for the wonderful woman you are. A black woman. P.S. when you find each other, don't let him "string you along", protect your heart, kids and income. Request a permanent legalcommitment.


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  127. Listen, you are the only one you ever. Think. Why do we even have all these differences? For reasons that in modern 1st world countries don't even exist. Eye colour, Hair, skin and build differences were necessary adaptations to help survive the particular harshness,weather, and stressors of the natural environments which ancestors, from various places on the Earth, had deal with to survive. If some little variation, helped a warrior survive a battle, kept a woman from miscarrying, or helped keep our predecessors from starving, or other fatal harm, those people lived to deposit this trait into the gene pool. What natural attributes helped keep us alive in one part of the world could have done us in, These advantages may not have been one ,somewhere else. If you think about original climates each race came from,and how each distinctive feature might have been a benefit to adapting to it, our physical diversities make sense. Life was about survival, not so much about what's cute. Vanity is a luxury, and standards of beauty weren't standard,(no Ebony or Cosmo!). Love yourself , you were wonderfully, and awesomely made.Develope the "self " God gave you.Discover your own kind of beauty, take care of that unique, precious person that you were born to be, choose clothes that flatter your shape, wear shades that enhance your inner glow. Love your real hair, washi it frequently, in heavenly scents and treasure it's genetically unique softness. No other race has it! And love often "happens" when we are not pacing the floor waiting, but shows up while we do other things. Pray. The right man will love you for the wonderful woman you are. A black woman. P.S. when you find each other, don't let him "string you along", protect your heart, kids and income. Request a permanent legalcommitment.


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  128. Anonymous23:15

    Girl you're not normal .. You want to be something you're not that says it all ..

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  129. really you wish you could drain all the black blood out its not that you're stupid you're not black because of blood is red not black really take time and look at yourself and see that black is beautiful but your blood is red

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  130. Anonymous01:54

    I'ma white guy and I find black girls to be the hottist things God ever made

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  131. Anonymous21:29

    you are a shame. i'm a 19 black girl living in paris, trying to find my way but i see that people like you, older than me, don't know anything about their culture. you are black and you despise it. what a shame ! you can change the colour of your skin and build yourself as a beautiful person. what you do and what you thin will make you beautiful, and i see you have a long trip... maybe you are not self confident, ok, but i see that you just want to be like a white girl, because you had grown up with, but that is not you. learn who you are, where you com from, and maybe you will love yourself.
    thank you for giving me more reasons to love myself, but i won't ever listen to people like you, because when you despise black skin, it is all the black girls on the earth that you insult

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