I'M IN LOVE WITH MY STEP BROTHER

Sporah Njau
Hello Sporah, Usually I don't seek advice from people on the internet because they don't know my life story and will judge me wrong but right now I'm desperate since I can't tell anyone about this. I don't know where to begin so I'm going to tell the whole story.


My mother and my biological dad was best friends with a guy named Ola (my step dad to be) and i am in love with his son. 

When I turned 9 my mom and dad got divorced because my mom was cheating on my dad on her "Working hours". 


My mom is such a great actor, she was acting so fake towards him doing everything and anything for him so he wont find out and leave her.


My dad suspected it all along but waited for evidence or for her to confess. It wasn't a shock for me because i was spending most of my time with my dad while my mom is busy "working"  every day she goes to work, sometimes even Sundays, and it doesn't take a genious to sense something was wrong with my mom and dad marriage.

Eventually my dad left my mom few years ago, after taking her nonsense for many many years. We had our neighbour who is very close to my mom and my Dad too and became my friend as well, his name Ola.
Ola was there to comfort my mom through this time.
I realized that I had a crush on my best friend Ola, when I was 15 years old and we started flirting with each other after getting past that awkward stage we had the year before when people kept mistaking us for a couple and saying that girls and guys can't just simply be friends.

Eventually my mom started dating Ola, while i have been kissing, playing around Ola for years, YES he is way older than me but i LIKED him. 

Ola has a SON who is 1 year younger than me, who we happen going to one college since last year. Because we are almost the same age, going to the same college we end up being good friends. AND fall in love. I love him and i believe he loves me too, he's father is single and my mom is single so we have a lot in common. 


OKAY. 

This year ( I'm 18 years old) my mom and Ola announced that they were getting married in October. After 2 years of dating each other, they decided to get married and buy a house where all 4 of us could live together and be a big happy family together. There is only one thing stopping us, 

Now, over the past 10 months I've been in love with Ola's Son, James and him being my stepbrother haven't changed anything (like I thought it would) because I'm still attracted to him. The problem is My mom marrying his father and us living together in the same house...!
I need your advice Sporah, please.

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12 comments:

  1. Anonymous06:09

    Talk to your mom about this right away. Tell her exactly what's happened, and how you feel. Talk it out with both parents. They need to know about it too.

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  2. Anonymous06:39

    u r not blood related so i see nothing wrong

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  3. Anonymous07:19

    Are your parents already married?? if not just tell them, if you don't I'm sure you'll regret it

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  4. Anonymous07:38

    I think you should tell them asap because things could get more tricky or complicated if you hold off. Don't worry,

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  5. Anonymous07:39

    Tuwekee basi na ya Kiswahili dada sporah.

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  6. Anonymous07:43

    Swwethear, i think you should go with your heart and do whatever will make YOU the HAPPY.

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  7. Anonymous08:10

    Go to school please, GO TO SCHOOL young woman what's wrong with you Idiot?
    Please go to school.

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  8. Anonymous08:32

    Talk it over with your step brother, tell him the truth that you kissed or fancy his dad and see if he will still be interesting, because the truth will once come out regardless. THE EARLIER THE BETTER young lady.

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  9. Anonymous09:18

    My sister, bible say every unrighteousness is a SIN.
    U need to be born again, may GOD help U.
    BLESS U

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  10. Anonymous09:42

    TECHNICALLY , IT IS NOT WRONG.BIOLOGICALLY IT IS OK. I THINK THE ONLY WRONG SIDE TO IT IS THE AFRICAN VIEW. WHICH I THINK IS BIG ENOUGH, SINCE WE ARE ALL AFRICANS.

    THEN IMAGINE THAT YOUR MOTHER IN LAW WILL BE YOUR STEPMUM AND ALSO YOUR STEPMUM'S HUSBAND WHO IS YOUR FATHER WILL ALSO BE YOUR FATHER INLAW.

    JUST CLOSE YOUR EYES AND IMAGINE THE WEDDING DAY, ESPECIALLY THE TRADITIONAL WEDDING, THERE WILL BE A LOT OF CONFUSION.

    JUST BURST IT SAVE YOURSELF THE STRESS, THOUGH I KNOW IT IS NOT EASY. YOU ARE JUST HAVING A FLING.
    WISH YOU THE BEST

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  11. Anonymous10:28

    reconsider.

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  12. Anonymous12:25

    Du unaenda motoni dadaangu, hakuna cha maelezo wala nini. TUMBAVU WEWE.

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