Dear Sporah I need your help,
My nane is Loyce, i am 27 yrs of age, i truly need your help.
I haven’t had sex for over 2 years now and I don’t miss it. Is there something wrong with me because I don’t want sex? I changed boyfriend to boyfriend thinking may be am with the wrong person! until i got to realise that the problem is ME..
What should I do?
I'm in a healthy relationship, am very healthy myself, slim, fit, my boyfriend is very attractive and constantly tells me I am gorgeous. I have no stress in my life - we're not rich or poor, but have a nice house, healthy diet, i have good friends around me and wonderful family, we get on so well as a family unit.
I have a great boyfriend and we have a awsome relationship but for some reason I don't feel like having sex anymore.
What the heck is my problem?
I just can't get into the mood, We tried to go away for holiday, to have a romantic evening like roses candles and so on set the mood make everything right for sex hopefully it will help, BUT it never help to give me the feeling,
I'm positive it has nothing to do with him.
What should I do?
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Nothing is wrong with you my dear, just relax more.
ReplyDeleteYou don't like SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeyyyyyyyyyyyy woooooooooooooooooooooooo COME TO NIGERIA MY SISTER, please.
ReplyDeleteFind creative ways -to- have sex: new positions, fetishes, etc.
ReplyDeleteCouple of questions before people can give you a better answer.
ReplyDeleteHas sex with your partner ever felt good?
Does it hurt/feel embarrasing every time?
Does your partner do things that feel good to you? Put enough time into foreplay (at least 20 minutes)? Do things to bring you to orgasm like oral or manual? Are you only engaging in intercourse or do you do other sexual stuff as well?
Do you two spend time doing other intimate stuff that are not necessarily sexual like cuddling, touching (skin-to-skin), teasing?
Do you tell each other what you want sexually? Meaning do you give him guidance on what feels good and ask him to do those things?
Are there any other issues with your relationship right now?
Are there any other issues in your life that is adding stress? Work, money, family?
Did you change any medication? Are you on any type of hormonal birth control?
I have this problem with my wife too. She seems to have little interest. A nice gesture when you are laying in his arms, reach down and give him a hand job. Men are simple creatures when it comes to sex. A little attention can go a long way. You can also see a Dr. and talk to him about giving you testosterone to increase your desire.
ReplyDeletejust stay away from him there is a real reason why you don't want to have it , wait a couple of weeks and then see if the being away from him is still a problem with sex.
ReplyDeleteremember this if you truly love someone sex is not a job you just cant get enough of them with sex OR just being around them arouses you, if you don't get that feeling then get out before you shrivel your brain. you don't love him that's no big deal it happens all the time. run
You're probably become bored with the routine. Try to spice it up with some more fourplay/toys or try a new position all together. Another thing is, you may not be attracted to him anymore.
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